Honestly i don't know. Really its the same god damn thing. Some men claim it feels tighter, but unless you have an unusually small penis it really does feel the same. I really have as a man tested this whole phenomenom to find vailidity in the obsession
My conclussion is three points
1. On a subconcious level its a position of submission, for a woman to let you stick something in her ass, where she has nothing to gain from it, gives some men a sense of power, and complete ownership of the woman
2. In porn at least men mistake the look of pain on her face with the look of pleasure. Every man wants to stick it in his girlfriends vagina and for her to wince in pain and pleasure because "OMG your so big" when in reality unless your hung like a horse she wont do that, but though anal she will, but not in the way men make it out to be. Man get excited over the reaction, if you notice in porn the most popular anal porns are the ones where the girl reacts and doesn't want it... how many "______ First time anal" titles are there? If you see a women just loving anal, and even get off on it, most men will click the X and say its too gay or she's too slutty and dirty.
3. The media tells us men we want anal, in the porn industry, on TV, peer pressure... in the 1980's when Anal was a dirty little taboo that only homosexuals with AIDS practiced, all the rage from men was "Doggie style" there was half a million ways to make a doggie reference/joke like there was to make an anal reference today, but now all couples do doggie, and its socially acceptable. In the victorian days 19th century, woman on top misionary were prostitutes and whores, and that was the desired postion of the day... Go home and rape your wife, but let a prostiture ride you... how naughty?
Just like skinny women, and large cocks, the media demands we have anal or were not really real menly men... although anal is the complete image of the homosexual couple... ironic huh?
Thats my psychological standpoint anyway I could be wrong...
My husband may be an odd ball, but he actually enjoys the safety in anal knowing that we can't get pregnant with it. The vagina has an embedded danger about it that is often a turnoff for no other reason than it could lead to a baby. That's just from my experience.
There isn't a real big difference in feeling - again, from my experience. I don't think that's a driving force. Porn may have something to do with it just because porn is the media of the sex world. It sets the trends the same way magazines and celebrities do in "real" life (the un-dirty parts). Nevertheless, I think there was something that sparked the increase in anal porn.
Perhaps it all comes down to the taboo aspect. The ass is a forbidden zone...dirty, tainted, and sometimes painful. There is an element of dominance involved, but I think the adventurous nature of anal is what makes it so fun. It's exciting because it's sort of weird. If only humans were viewed in the same light...haha.
it feels better to me thats why i like it. and i don't have a small penis either. so its not a matter of that. some girls get so wet that you loose a lot of the good friction. in those cases anal sex can be much more stimulating. i can get off way faster doing my wife anally then i can any other way. i guess you kind of have to be a guy that has done it to really know the diffrence. of course it all depends on the girl too. some girls are better in hole a then in slot B. plus my wife also dose me with a strap on. its only fair that i return the favor :-)
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Heavenlyfollower / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Honestly i don't know. Really its the same god damn thing. Some men claim it feels tighter, but unless you have an unusually small penis it really does feel the same. I really have as a man tested this whole phenomenom to find vailidity in the obsession
My conclussion is three points
1. On a subconcious level its a position of submission, for a woman to let you stick something in her ass, where she has nothing to gain from it, gives some men a sense of power, and complete ownership of the woman
2. In porn at least men mistake the look of pain on her face with the look of pleasure. Every man wants to stick it in his girlfriends vagina and for her to wince in pain and pleasure because "OMG your so big" when in reality unless your hung like a horse she wont do that, but though anal she will, but not in the way men make it out to be. Man get excited over the reaction, if you notice in porn the most popular anal porns are the ones where the girl reacts and doesn't want it... how many "______ First time anal" titles are there? If you see a women just loving anal, and even get off on it, most men will click the X and say its too gay or she's too slutty and dirty.
3. The media tells us men we want anal, in the porn industry, on TV, peer pressure... in the 1980's when Anal was a dirty little taboo that only homosexuals with AIDS practiced, all the rage from men was "Doggie style" there was half a million ways to make a doggie reference/joke like there was to make an anal reference today, but now all couples do doggie, and its socially acceptable. In the victorian days 19th century, woman on top misionary were prostitutes and whores, and that was the desired postion of the day... Go home and rape your wife, but let a prostiture ride you... how naughty?
Just like skinny women, and large cocks, the media demands we have anal or were not really real menly men... although anal is the complete image of the homosexual couple... ironic huh?
Thats my psychological standpoint anyway I could be wrong...
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
My husband may be an odd ball, but he actually enjoys the safety in anal knowing that we can't get pregnant with it. The vagina has an embedded danger about it that is often a turnoff for no other reason than it could lead to a baby. That's just from my experience.
There isn't a real big difference in feeling - again, from my experience. I don't think that's a driving force. Porn may have something to do with it just because porn is the media of the sex world. It sets the trends the same way magazines and celebrities do in "real" life (the un-dirty parts). Nevertheless, I think there was something that sparked the increase in anal porn.
Perhaps it all comes down to the taboo aspect. The ass is a forbidden zone...dirty, tainted, and sometimes painful. There is an element of dominance involved, but I think the adventurous nature of anal is what makes it so fun. It's exciting because it's sort of weird. If only humans were viewed in the same light...haha.
Mrgizmo757 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
it feels better to me thats why i like it. and i don't have a small penis either. so its not a matter of that. some girls get so wet that you loose a lot of the good friction. in those cases anal sex can be much more stimulating. i can get off way faster doing my wife anally then i can any other way. i guess you kind of have to be a guy that has done it to really know the diffrence. of course it all depends on the girl too. some girls are better in hole a then in slot B. plus my wife also dose me with a strap on. its only fair that i return the favor :-)
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