Question for ya: I'm a petite lady whose dating a tall guy (he over 6ft) and it may cause a problem when performing what used to be one of his favorite positions. We love fucking, we especially love doing it doggy-style. But, I get on all fours and he's fucking me, it hurts so bad. It's mostly in my stomach. There were a couple of morning when I still had a slight discomfort. I think it may have to do with our big difference in height. But I've done it doggy before and I never had that problem before. The men I did see and have sex with were taller than me. But, I don't know why it's so different this time around. What make doggy-style sex so painful?
3 Replies
Justmexo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
You’re not the only one with this issue, most petite girls struggle when doing it doggy-style. It could be your height, or even your small frame. Try these other positions with him behind you, that will put less tension on your stomach and more on your g-spot. Position yourself as if you were doing a “frog leap” and have him rest on his knees. This will give you more control of where and how he enters you.
Another alternative that will give you more control and stability, as well as more pleasure for the both of you is “standing doggy style”: bend over, with your hands and elbows on the seat of a chair, making sure your legs are apart. Have him behind you doing the same. The stability the chair provides will allow you to position yourself so that it’s less painful, you can also try this against the bed.
Most women also have issues connecting with the man because he is behind them. Have him touch your breasts and stimulate your clitoris so that it’s even more pleasurable for you! Try these moves and you’ll be pain-free hopefully!
Oneman123 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Well it could be height or it could be the way how your positioned. Just go with what the answer is and I'm sure you won't have those probs again
Marlee / Woman / Likes Men / Single
If you're experienced cramping pains in your stomach then your boyfriend is most likely hitting your cervix with his penis during doggy-style sex. The cervix is at the end of the vaginal barrier, or the tip of the uterus. When a woman is very aroused, the cervix pulls up (rises) and it won't get hit by penis. However, when a woman is not yet at that high point of arousal, the cervix can dip into the vagina and get hit by the penis. This can cause a horrible cramping pain during sex, and often remains after sex. The best solution is to not engage in doggy-style until you're extremely aroused, so do a lot of foreplay or start the sex in a different position and then switch once you're sufficiently aroused. If you still have this problem then stop doing doggy-style!!!
Add your reply to Xtinacicchelli