i am a woman and not very sexually expeirienced. whenever i am on top i am either in pain or i feel nothing at all unless he is thrusting upward. i want to be able to get pleasure when im riding my boyfriend. he is starting to think that im being selfish because i never want to be on top, but the truth is it isnt pleasurable to me. i've read books, and spoke to friends but the motions ive been told dont seem to work
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Have you tried flipping around so that your ass faces him? A lot of women go on top and just have the whole titty flopping in the air position. That works for some of us, but others need a new angle. If that doesn't work, you can try using a vibrating cock ring so his dick and balls basically turn into a vibrator, or you can get a small finger vibrator to use on yourself. If you can at least please your clit long enough for him to cum once, you may be able to switch positions and cum during round two. Good luck :)
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