I Need A Good Spanking!

My girlfriend and I are very active sexually and we do it almost every day. Obviously we both love it but sadly she and I are night and day in our desires. She is into tender kisses and cuddling and strictly missionary. I, on the other hand like to do it a little rougher. I like doggie style and I REALLY get off on spanking the ass of my partner while I'm doing her. I also would like to experiment with some mild bondage stuff. Can my girlfriend and I come to an understanding and meet somewhere in the middle or will one of us have to give up what they really like? If that has to happen I know we will drift apart. What do you suggest we do??

How do you know that's turned off by rough sex and spanking? Did you take the initiative and try some techniques she didn't like? Let's assume that you already told her and she freaked out. I say the next phase is to get creative and find ways of exploring your fantasies together, but be gradual about introducing rougher sex into the mix. When women think of rough sex, sometimes they feel uncomfortable because it's misinterpreted as an act of control or power rather than desire. One of the best ways to start is to practice talking dirty with one another. She can tell you how naughty she's been and how her butt is aching for your hand. Make it playful! Make it fun! Yes, rough sex can be fun. You can laugh and slap her ass as much as the two of you want, and laughing can make her relax and enjoy herself. Play with each other and found out where the boundaries lie. I would introduce bondage later, when she seems ready to take it to the next level. Then, you can use household items (a pair of nylon stockings, for instance) to tie her up. This also keeps the playtime casual for the both of you. If she doesn't have any fantasies of her own she'd like to explore, then make this the opportunity where she can explore something new. You can set up roleplay scenarios to keep the playful. Bottom line: Package your rough sex with a pink bow and make it fun for her. If she reaches a point where she can go further, then go there. But, if she isn't looking forward to bending over your knee, you may have to seek a naughty boy or girl somewhere else.

Answered by xtinacicchelli about 1 year ago.
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