My gf and I have been dating for a couple of months and I think it's a good time to try anal sex. I've always really enjoyed it when I was dating girls in the past. Almost every girl has done it before, except my current gf. She's never had anal sex before and when I told her that I liked it, she didn't seem game for the idea at all. I do play with her butt (licking, touching, etc) and she enjoys that but even if I think about fucking her in the butt, she freezes up. I thought maybe it would be a good idea to use toys and help her out in that way. Are there are any good sex toys out there for anal play that might make her change her mind?
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Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
For girls who have never had anal sex, it might be a really scary thing!. Toys might be a good idea, but could also be seen as scary, so you might want to wait before introducing them into anus play. If your girl already likes some attention on her ass, you might try spending extra time down there playing and licking. Another thing that works wonders is while you give her oral sex, start gently massaging her butt and anus. Giving her so much pleasure might get her more aroused, and start to connect anal sex with erotic feelings instead of being so scared and tense. As you continue this when you have sex, try gently putting a finger in there. Don’t forget, use lots of lubricant! This will help introduce her into the feeling, and if you do it as the same time you are giving her oral sex, can really excite her! See if this helps ease her into feeling more comfortable. The things you need are time and lube!
Throat_poker / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Keep touching her clit the whole time, first to turn her on and relax and then to distract her while you bang her ass to your hearts content.
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