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1. When you told me that I could get a good fleshlight, what are you talking about?
2. Also when you and watcher say sex shops ship the toys very discretely how do you mean?
Before I answer, i have to ask a favor of you T-Bone. You post a lot of continued questions on the site, but it's hard for viewers to follow what's going on because they haven't seen your first question. If you could do me a favor and start posting any follow-ups you have in the comments section of the same question, things will be a lot easier to understand. If you could, please....it would be appreciated.
As for your questions:
1. A fleshlight is a male sex toy that looks like a flashlight (sort of), but at the end where the light bulb would normally be, there is a fake vagina, mouth, ass hole, etc. Here's a picture for reference:
The inside of one of these things has special material made to feel like a vagina, mouth, etc. It's basically the ultimate sex toy for men. It vibrates even...
2. It means that the toys will come in boxes that will not seem like they came from a sex shop. Everything is kept private so only you know what is really in the box. Unless your parents opened it or the place on the address indicated the name of a sex shop, no one would know.
When you told me about if my parents open the box and something else would possibly give it away what was the second thing I didn't get the second thing you said?
If the address the package comes from says something about sex on it, that would give it away. Like if it says "Christie's Toy Box, XXXX Sex St, Miami, FL.." Or something along those lines. A lot of them have names that do not suggest toy shops though.
Well I just thought of the lions den shop that you suggested in an earlier post, would you say that they'd be discrete When they ship the toys, how could I find out if that's right? Also I said in an earlier post that I have a younger sister that's below the age of 10, so I was wondering how I could use the toys and keep that fact hidden from her and my parents as well, would you say that I should wait a few months , so when I go off to college that I could use them then of what do you think?
It would probably be easier to wait, yes. Otherwise you will just have to put them in a secure box no one can get to. You'll have to contact any place you order from to find out how they ship their toys. That I couldn't tell you.
Do you think that I maybe, could wait until they all are asleep, because i don't want to masterbate with my hand anymore because it's getting boring doing the same thing over and over( ha ha)my sister goes to bed early it would probably be my parents that I'd have to keep the noise done for the most, are they very noicey also how would you say I would need to wash the flashlight when I get one and use it, but I was wondering how to use one and where the cum goes when I would get off?
T-bone: I can't speak as a guy who has personally used a male sex toy but I can tell you what I've heard. I don't think the toy would create any noise when used but I can not be 100% about that, so you may want to hold off on buying one until you go to college.
To clean it, as far as I know, you have to turn inside out the rubber part, which may or may not pose a problem for you with your CP. A good example is that I cannot picture in my head how you would turn a rubber tube-type object, which is what alot of male sex toys basically are, inside out with one hand, and you have said in the past you cannot use one of your hands vary well, leaving you only the other one.
Well I wasn't really wanting to wait that long, so in that regard, have you ever heard of sex shops having demos or experimental rooms, where someone could try sex toys out ( male or female), or would you think that the employees could help me out in the regards of telling me if they're very noisey?
I'm sure they'd be happy to help answer any question you'd have reaurding one of their products. They'd even give you a better explanation on how to clean it than I have. Just be sure to go to one of the bigger, better ones with plenty of staff. Just look up "adult store near west virginia" at maps.google.com. There seems to be a chain of stores in your area called Lions Den Adult Superstore which gets good reviews.
I don't think they'd give out any samples though as that sounds unhygenic and just icky. Would you really want to use one if dozens or hundreads of guys have used it before you? And I don't think the staff is gonna want to clean it out after you. So no, no samples in all likelihood.
In your opinion, how do you think I could get to lions den, since I don't drive, do you think asking a guy friend to take me would it not work, also I've taken a local bus up to the mall before, so do you think that would be the best choose, since it goes to Milton?
If you feel fine about taking the bus and walking the rest of the way I would recommend that over having a friend drive you. I think it would be awkward asking a friend. But that's my personal opinion
Heaven: I'm asking you to help me on this one as I'm not entirely confident with my answer.
I'd take the bus over the friend as well to spare the awkwardness. It'll be weird riding the bus with a bag of sex toys though, so bring a backpack with you to put them in. Zip them up safe and secure. As long as the bus systems there are reliable and safe, you should be fine.
The only reason I haven't been saying anything by the way is because this has gone on a big tangent that is not exactly related to the original post. I try to answer and maybe do a follow up, but not much more...I'm a busy girl :) But, since Watcher beggggged for help (wink), I stepped back in for a sec.
I kind of live in the same household as you Heven, but we talk about sex, but when it comes to the toys, what's your opinion, do you think that I could still buy the toys but just hide them from my parents?
15 Replies
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Before I answer, i have to ask a favor of you T-Bone. You post a lot of continued questions on the site, but it's hard for viewers to follow what's going on because they haven't seen your first question. If you could do me a favor and start posting any follow-ups you have in the comments section of the same question, things will be a lot easier to understand. If you could, please....it would be appreciated.
As for your questions:
1. A fleshlight is a male sex toy that looks like a flashlight (sort of), but at the end where the light bulb would normally be, there is a fake vagina, mouth, ass hole, etc. Here's a picture for reference:
The inside of one of these things has special material made to feel like a vagina, mouth, etc. It's basically the ultimate sex toy for men. It vibrates even...
2. It means that the toys will come in boxes that will not seem like they came from a sex shop. Everything is kept private so only you know what is really in the box. Unless your parents opened it or the place on the address indicated the name of a sex shop, no one would know.
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
When you told me about if my parents open the box and something else would possibly give it away what was the second thing I didn't get the second thing you said?
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
If the address the package comes from says something about sex on it, that would give it away. Like if it says "Christie's Toy Box, XXXX Sex St, Miami, FL.." Or something along those lines. A lot of them have names that do not suggest toy shops though.
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
Well I just thought of the lions den shop that you suggested in an earlier post, would you say that they'd be discrete When they ship the toys, how could I find out if that's right? Also I said in an earlier post that I have a younger sister that's below the age of 10, so I was wondering how I could use the toys and keep that fact hidden from her and my parents as well, would you say that I should wait a few months , so when I go off to college that I could use them then of what do you think?
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
It would probably be easier to wait, yes. Otherwise you will just have to put them in a secure box no one can get to. You'll have to contact any place you order from to find out how they ship their toys. That I couldn't tell you.
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
Do you think that I maybe, could wait until they all are asleep, because i don't want to masterbate with my hand anymore because it's getting boring doing the same thing over and over( ha ha)my sister goes to bed early it would probably be my parents that I'd have to keep the noise done for the most, are they very noicey also how would you say I would need to wash the flashlight when I get one and use it, but I was wondering how to use one and where the cum goes when I would get off?
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
Heven can you answer this last comment, please because it's been a while sence I posted the comment and I don't have an answer yet?
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
T-bone: I can't speak as a guy who has personally used a male sex toy but I can tell you what I've heard. I don't think the toy would create any noise when used but I can not be 100% about that, so you may want to hold off on buying one until you go to college.
To clean it, as far as I know, you have to turn inside out the rubber part, which may or may not pose a problem for you with your CP. A good example is that I cannot picture in my head how you would turn a rubber tube-type object, which is what alot of male sex toys basically are, inside out with one hand, and you have said in the past you cannot use one of your hands vary well, leaving you only the other one.
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
Well I wasn't really wanting to wait that long, so in that regard, have you ever heard of sex shops having demos or experimental rooms, where someone could try sex toys out ( male or female), or would you think that the employees could help me out in the regards of telling me if they're very noisey?
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
I'm sure they'd be happy to help answer any question you'd have reaurding one of their products. They'd even give you a better explanation on how to clean it than I have. Just be sure to go to one of the bigger, better ones with plenty of staff. Just look up "adult store near west virginia" at maps.google.com. There seems to be a chain of stores in your area called Lions Den Adult Superstore which gets good reviews.
I don't think they'd give out any samples though as that sounds unhygenic and just icky. Would you really want to use one if dozens or hundreads of guys have used it before you? And I don't think the staff is gonna want to clean it out after you. So no, no samples in all likelihood.
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
In your opinion, how do you think I could get to lions den, since I don't drive, do you think asking a guy friend to take me would it not work, also I've taken a local bus up to the mall before, so do you think that would be the best choose, since it goes to Milton?
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
If you feel fine about taking the bus and walking the rest of the way I would recommend that over having a friend drive you. I think it would be awkward asking a friend. But that's my personal opinion
Heaven: I'm asking you to help me on this one as I'm not entirely confident with my answer.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I'd take the bus over the friend as well to spare the awkwardness. It'll be weird riding the bus with a bag of sex toys though, so bring a backpack with you to put them in. Zip them up safe and secure. As long as the bus systems there are reliable and safe, you should be fine.
The only reason I haven't been saying anything by the way is because this has gone on a big tangent that is not exactly related to the original post. I try to answer and maybe do a follow up, but not much more...I'm a busy girl :) But, since Watcher beggggged for help (wink), I stepped back in for a sec.
Ta-ta now.
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
Heven or watcher would a laptop case work fine because that's pretty much all I've got in bags or backpacks such as Heven suggested?
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
I kind of live in the same household as you Heven, but we talk about sex, but when it comes to the toys, what's your opinion, do you think that I could still buy the toys but just hide them from my parents?
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