My Girlfriend Needs to Wear a Strap-On

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After dating guys for a while (I'm 24 and had my first sexual experience at 16), I just recently started seeing a girl that is awesome. We both have great times together, but the sex is lacking. I enjoy when she goes down on me, but I'm really used to penetration and I've always gotten off by being penetrated. I thought that a strap-on dildo might help solve this problem, but she doesn't like the idea of using it on me. I asked her why and she said that she's never been comfortable wielding a strap-on and feels weird using it on other women. I really like her, but I need something inside of me!!! How can I introduce a strap-on dildo into our sex play? Is there any that you recommend as the best?

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Jesus
Jesus / Woman / Likes Men / Single

bang a dude

about 5 years ago
Dan
Dan / Woman / Likes Men / Single

When you're starting to get romantic, try to use a strap-on on her. This way, she can see how much enjoyment you can get out of it, and for reciprocation's sake, she'll be more willing to do it to you. If you want something from a lover, it's good to get her to put herself in your shoes.

about 5 years ago
Dee
Dee / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Get a man, then you wont have to worry about it.

almost 5 years ago
Justathought
Justathought / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Why does it have to be a strap on? Couldn't you use some kind of other dildo or vibrator?

almost 5 years ago
James
James / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Well from what you'r really saying you like the cock so really you'r not gay/bi you may be friends but it really does sound you just want cock inside you.

almost 5 years ago
Domglasgow2009
Domglasgow2009 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I would talk to her about where the hang up comes from and introduce it slowly maybe in a 3 some. But if she wont go for it and you need fucked then get a woman who will or a get a guy friend to just give you the great buzz of penetration

over 4 years ago
Jenny
Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Ease her into penetration by first using dildos alone. Once she sees how satisfying the penetration is for you and to herself, she will likely become more open minded to using the strap-on!

over 4 years ago
Eric_d.
Eric_d / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Any guy who is saying he needs to get a guy or that he is gay sounds so ridiculous!! if your that uptight and insecure with yourself that you have not or refuse to have your ass fingered or penetrated with a dildo then thats your loss.. Men who are gay are not the only ones who would enjoy anal penetration, yes gay men are infamous for anal sex but the fact is that anal penetration done right and slowly at first will please any man. I personally am like the poster above, accept my girlfriend now enjoys it and gets pretty into it.. no strapon yet but we have a few dildos i use on her and i have had them all inside of me not while she sucked me or licked my balls and jerked me off.. she had never done so before, i actually broke the ice by touching and licking her ass, i slowly went from just kinda giving her asshole a lil massage during foreplay to slowly getting a little finger in. She then said something about it kinda like turned on and nervous and i said i love your ass it feels good huh and she said ya and i then somehow managed to squeeze in that i liked it as well.. it just progressed from there now she nails me with dildos and says she loves it and i can see she does.. just brings another aspect to the bedroom.. i have yet to figure out how to ask for the strapon tho.. i feel like she might think i am headed in the cock direction if im making her fuck me like that.. im pretty sure she would be down though.. i just need to get the balls up. i tried to kinda hint at one at the adult store but either she missed the signal or felt awkward..and to andy "introduce it in a 3some"????? how so?? he hun i decided to show u that strapons arent gay i brought in another girl to fuck me with one..wtf?? i think the strapon request is maybe a higher precentage play than the 3some if there was statistics

over 4 years ago
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