Masturbation for me is getting BO-RING! I like to jerk off whenever I get a chance. I use a lot of porn and magazines for stimulation. My girlfriend isn't even intimidated when I wank before coming to bed. We still have a really hot sex life. But, I also think that because my gf and I are having such good sex, my masturbation has definitely gone on for way too long. Sometimes I don't even come. So, now, I'm thinking about spicing it up and bringing some toys to the mix... Now, I know they have plenty of sex toys for guys, but which ones are the best? And which sex toys for men are actually effective? Also, do you think my gf will be threatened by my new toys?
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Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
It sounds like you need a change in routine. You say you masturbate whenever you can; I wonder if it has become boring because you not only have an active sex life, but you are too used to masturbating whenever, where. Test yourself—see if you can go a day or two without, and if it feels any more exciting when you do it again. Also, there is something called “edging,” which is getting really close to an orgasm without actually having one. This might be a fun challenge, and make your orgasms way more intense when you choose to have one.
As for toys, there are plenty to choose one. One of the number one sellers for men’s toys is a “pocket pussy.” One popular brand is called the Fleshlight—something shaped like a flashlight, but with an opening at the end like a vagina, ass, mouth—whatever you choose. Other popular men’s toys include vibrators, masturbation sleeves, cock rings, or other lubricants. If you enjoy anal play, there are a ton of toys just right for you. Anal beads or butt plugs could shake things up a notch, and could be used by yourself or with your partner. My advice is to go to your local adult toy store or webpage and browse around and see what peaks your interest. Before you bring them into the bedroom, just run it by your girlfriend and see what she would comfortable with.
Killzone / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Try TENGA CUPS (Red Standard Series) look at YouTube!!!
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