My best friend is a photographer and we both have one year left to go. She's been trying to create a sensational portfolio this summer, including some very cutting edge erotica. I'm currently without a boyfriend and I have agreed to take part in some of her photography, with her boyfriend Damon. It was a little awkward, and still is, but most of the photos are deeply shadowed and close-ups. The only condition she set and I agreed, was that he could not cum on me or in me. (Condoms would ruin the photo) She was adamant about that, because she wasn't making porn. So for the past three weeks, we've been nude together, fondled each other, performed oral sex on each other and had regular intercourse. He is very gentle and considerate. Last week, my friend wanted me to do anal sex with him. It was awkward, because he has a short, but very thick penis, but I agreed. She had finished the shoot and as Damon was VERY SLOWLY taking his penis out, he ejaculated in me. I felt it, and it was MASSIVE. I was embarrassed and he looked nervously at me. We both waited until my friend turned around and I pulled my panties on as Damon slipped his shorts on. I thought is was just an accident. We did another anal sex shoot on Friday and he did it again to me. I thought it was impossible for it to happen twice and I don't appreciate him doing it. He claims that he has no control over it. I value my friends relationship and don't want to do anything to damage it. Last night, we were doing a very hot 69 position shoot with my friend who was alternating which end she was shooting, when she had him roll over so that he was on top. He had positioned his thighs and spread them apart so that I WAS NOT able to take his penis out of my mouth. I tried not to move an inch since I knew the shoot was almost over. I tried to keep my eyes closed as she finished shooting, but I couldn't help but notice Damon's balls were so tight they looked like they were going to burst. Then he DID. I didn't flinch, I just let his cum shoot, then drip down my throat. I cried a little as he milked himself completely off, then squeezed himself dry. Of course, I swallowed everything.
I'm so afraid of telling my friend about Damon, because she is very emotional at times. I feel like I have betrayed her, but I wasn't the one with the LOOSE CANNON, Damon was. She told me today, that she has all the pictures she needs and she was so grateful for my help. She bought me a necklace and took me out to a very expensive lunch, without Damon. I did get to see the photos and they look great actually, deeply shadows and almost impossible to see who the models were, just a penis and mouth, etc. Since it's over, I don't know if I should tell her and ruin her elated feelings or just keep my mouth shut.
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Hmmm, tough call. You could lose the friendship if you tell her, but she has some right to know. I could see him not having control over it though...you're in hot positions, taking pics...you're not his girlfriend...it's all sort of fantasy. Some guys also have a hard time holding it. He may be one of those guys. I would probably talk to him about it actually and see if he wants to say anything. If not, then you have to decide how your friend will take the news. She'll either be mad at you, him, or both. You have to figure out which one it will be.
Really, if you never have to see him again, then I wouldn't worry about it. You were in a semi-porn and you got jizzed on. It happens, although I do understand the extreme awkwardness. Even still, you can go on with your relationship just fine as long as you do not normally hang out with the boyfriend. You can also wait until her excitement passes for a bit so you do not ruin a special moment for her. Then she *will* hate you.
It's all your decision in the end, but I wouldn't do anything rash right now. She could break up with him tomorrow for all you know, and then you really would never have to worry about it. She could also take your news as a reason to destroy the pictures, and then the whole thing would be a waste. Just have patience and things will work out.
Booboo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
First, be glad he came in your ass and mouth and that you are not pregnant. Second, I assume neither of you have any STDs, have you been tested recently?
Next, your best friend has put you in a difficult position, and you let her. All 3 of you are responsible, and all 3 of you need to be adult about the situation now. If you can't be, none of you should have attempted this. You are playing with emotional fire and it might blow up in your ass (and ass again, and mouth, oops.)
How can you agree that he will not cum on or in you? It seems he needed to sign that contract, not you.
I could not be in those situations and hold it. But I would have tried to pull out even if it meant ruining the shot... Did any of you discuss what to do if that was going to occur? Did they?
Of the 3 of you, the boyfriend caused the biggest mess. Both literally and figuratively. You swallowed it silently, and your friend set the whole thing up in the first place. Pretty sexy, really. But did you really think this was all going to happen according to plan?
I might believe the first time was unintended, but the second and third was because he could get away with it. He knew it was happening and should have acted accordingly. He didn't. You didn't say anything at the time. And your friend asked you to have intensly intimate relations with her boyfriend. Sounds like the beginning of a slasher movie plot.
BUT, he ejaculated in your mouth, you laid there, said nothing, and cried? I hope next time someone cums in your mouth and ass, and you don't want them to, you would stop them. Repeat after me, "No, Stop". See how easy that was?
Don't be a victim.
As a guy, I would want to have sex with you, cum in you, and hide it from my girlfriend so I can keep humping her too. And hope you keep hiding it from her too. Maybe I'll ask you for more sex later, and try to blackmail you with guilt and try to get more sex from you. Maybe not.
Put yourself in your friend's shoes. Would you want to know if your boyfriend had sex with your friend and "accidently" came in her 3 times? And that he is not the honest person you thought he was? Would you want to be told? How would you react?
Be responsible, caring, thoughtful and act with your best intentions.
I hope you never have to trust that guy with your life. When your friend finds out, when he tells her to hurt her when they break up, she might be mad at you for not telling her, (so she'll be mad at both of you). If you tell her now, she might be mad at both of you, break up with him, and hate you anyway. So why is this all about her reactions? Because you let it. Repeat after me, "I am not a victim. I am in control of how I choose to respond. I will take responsibility (and take the consequences) for my actions."
Part of college life is learning to grow up and make responsible decisions. So, make sure you act like an adult from now on, and just hope your friend acts like an adult too.
Yep, you might lose a good friend, get an STD and ruin your reputation. Those are possible consequences of your actions and non-actions.
Look on the bright side. You made some pretty great pictures that will show up on the internet in 3...2...1...
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