Dear Heavenly,
This question might sound a little backward compared to a lot of the usual questions you get on the topic but I'm in a bit of a pickle.
My girlfriend and I have been together for several years and she used to be very cool with me pulling out at the end of sex to cum on her stomach or her face or rear or what have you. However, I guess I'm still maturing physically (I'm 23 now) as year after year I've found that my ejaculations keep increasing in volume, force, and distance.
Once upon a time I could keep it pretty manageable to a bit on her stomach or face or something, but these days it's pretty impossible not to make a humongous mess. If she was lying on the bed and I pulled out, a significant amount would wind up on the headboard...
My girlfriend is thus (understandably) far more reluctant to allow me to pull out and prefers that I ejaculate inside her. The downside of that being that she says having that much in there is uncomfortable and she dashes off to the bathroom to clean up right away.
I have tried "emptying" myself and having sex again but it often leaves me achey and isn't as enjoyable. Condoms are an option but we are monogamous and she is on BC and they hinder enjoyment for both of us.
Is there any way that you know that I can get my fluidic situation under control??
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Well, you sort of knocked down all of my suggestions. I first would have mentioned the emptying thing...check. Then I would have suggested settling for going inside her...check. I do think you should at least try using condoms to keep things calm in the shooting department. I'm married (thus monogamous) and on BC, but my husband and I will not have sex without a condom. Part of that is my paranoia about getting pregnant...I'm not ready for a baby. The other part is easy cleanup. I know it may decrease sensitivity for all involved, but that is a small price to pay in this situation really.
I'm not entirely sure what the driving force behind your explosive cum would be. That gets a little too scientific for my puny brain. I know there are ways to reduce your sperm count, but I'm not sure about the load itself. You've tried anything I could think of. Maybe someone else could make a better suggestion, but for now, I say get a drop cloth for the bed and go wild wen you want.
Have fun.
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