Hi. I am a guy that can go for a very long time and can stay hard long after I have ejaculated (in the right conditions). I'm just woundering is there a point that maybe I should stop if the girl doesn't openly complain? My longest running time was six hours without a break and I'm just concerned that maybe that much time or longer might be unpleasant for a girl even with position changing and what not, but a girl might not want to stop me to make me happy, help!
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Sexghoul / 26 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Its sort of the holding back issue but even when I do cum I just feel like that doesn't have to be the end and my erection agrees (it seems girls take longer than guys in my experience) and I just want to make sure she's satisfied. Its all ways about her with me. So should I ask her if she wants to stop at a certain point durring or maybe see how long she expects it to last beforehand?
Noname1970 · Ask her!!! Don't ever assume anything! Absolutely ask her! Women taking longer is almost always a given.... there are exceptions, but it's certainly not the rule. Is it possible the lady your sleeping with isn't so obvious when she climaxes? I've been with some women who practically had convulsions and some with whom it was just a subtle tightening up of their whole body.... everyone's different.... Of course, it could also be that she simply doesn't orgasm form intercourse as is the case with a fairly high percentage of women... From what you're saying, I think your best bet is to have a talk with your partner outside of the bedroom to figure these things out.... If you do that, I have little doubt your both going to enjoy it more when you get between the sheets...
Noname1970 / 42 / Man / Likes Women / Single
First of all, appreciate the fact that you don't have the opposite problem! While most women won't necessarily want to be sore for days, they'll probably take that over a five minute mile.....
Is this an issue in which you're able to hold back for as long as you want, or that you CAN'T always cum? If it's the former, I'd say let yourself go! Enjoy it! If you can go that long, chances are you've already given her more than she needs. If it's the latter, there's still probably nothing wrong: if you masturbate or have sex quite a bit, your semen supply might be taking longer to replenish than it used to, which is also natural as you get older.... BUT, you should see a doctor just to be sure....
As you get older, it's not uncommon for it to take longer an longer to cum, and the smart guys take advantage of this. But sex isn't an endurance test: six hours of thrusting will never replace 20 minutes of paying attention to her responses and applying some skill.....
Either way, keep this in mind: not every erection has to end with an ejaculation. From time to time it's a very good idea to make a romp in the bedroom COMPLETELY about her.... I've yet to meet a woman who wasn't impressed by a man who'll occasionally look for nothing more than the pleasure of giving pleasure....
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · i agree completely! ESPECIALLY the giving! my girl and only had sex 5 times last year, but i made sure she had an orgasm nearly every single date! (approx. weekly)
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
i have the same issue, and i've learned to time myself around an hour tops, because longer (usually) means i'll have to hear the girl complain for the next few days of soreness! i have learned to read the look on my girl's face to know how many orgasms she's had (i stopped pumping right after 7.......in maybe 1/2 hour!!!!) all i can advise is that you make it known you are cumming, then try to end it AFTER the girl cums! don't just keep going....
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