I don't know why I just really hate straight porn and anything involving a girl just irks me. I know that part of the frustration is jealousy because things some easily for girls (sexually I mean). For example, on Tumblr, people kept posting up this porn star, James Deen, And it kept pissing me off (to the point where I don't like him). I also ended up unfollowing the blogs who constantly posted his stuff. Every time I accidentally run into straight porn I just get so sad, angry and uncomfortable which I find interesting because I watched porn since before I was 10. Does anyone know why?
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Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
ok....... do you find urself attracted to women, or men, or both? it could be that you are feeling jealousy when you see heterosexual intercourse. do you ever watch gay or lesbian porn?
zMach7 · Well I'm a gay guy. I frequently watch gay porn, of course. I don't watch Lesbian porn but if I come across it by accident I don't care. If I come across heterosexual porn I get pissed.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · ok..... this sounds like a large amount of jealousy. however, it seems like your jealousy is mostly unnecessary due to your unrealistic expectations. you are a gay guy, in a mainly heterosexual world. gay (men AND women) are a huge minority. if the vast majority of the population was homosexual, how do you think the minority of straight people would feel? yes, it is easier for straight people (men or women), but it's mostly due to the majority of people being straight.
MonkeyBoy / 35 / Man / Likes Women / Married
So what you are saying is you hate woman. I am disgusted by facist people like you that feel it is alright for you to trash talk woman and heterosexual relationships and if I said something about how I feel two guys fucking each other makes me feel sick you would probably be the first to jump on me and call me homophobic or a hater. I agree with Adrian you are obviously jealous and inadequate that you feel the need to post this her on the site so that your hate can be read by others,
MonkeyBoy · FYI, I don't really care how one gets his rocks off as long as it is only with consenting persons of majority and capacity. Just to clarify, I do feel that homosexuality is detrimental to the species, but really thankful that some of you guys chose not to procreate and really wish others that have would follow given how they treat children.
MonkeyBoy · Don't want to be labeled a hater, hater.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · dude, u don't want to be called a hater, yet you make it plainly known that you look down on and dislike this guy's sexuality???? sounds like you been swimming in hater-ade........=/
zMach7 · I don't think I said I hated women. I don't, I really don't. I love the female body and I think it's fascinating aesthetically. If you said you felt the same way abut two guys fucking, honestly, I would not care. I would take the fact that you are NOT a homosexual male into consideration. I don't HATE heterosexuals, I just said the sex makes me feel a certain way, I didn't know why and I don't think i can stress enough that it's not coming from a malicious place.
zMach7 · Homosexuality is detrimental to the Human species? Do you REALLY think that with 7 billion people on this planet? If anything, homosexuality is helping the species and saving it from overpopulation, which is what we're in now.
zMach7 · Oh and BTW, I came here asking for help to see if other people could relate due to experiences past or present. If I wanted to hate on a sexuality, I would make it sound a little bit more like your post.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · @monkeyboy- shut it dude. it's hate-filled turds like u that are busy overpopulating this planet w/ crappy and ingorant genetics.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · @zmach7- i'm glad there's gay guys like u around. less competition for me!
Noname1970 · MonkeyBoy: You really need to get your facts straight. I did post-grad research on sex offenders and took a very close look at the actual numbers (DOJ; Doctoral dissertations; Victim's rights orgs; etc.) Even accounting for the differences in percentage of population, the vast majority of sex crimes committed against children are perpetrated by people who are heterosexual in their adult relations..... I don't know where you're getting your information, but it's wrong..... You may "feel" homosexuality is "detrimental," but that's all it is: a "feeling," without a sound factual foundation.
MonkeyBoy · Sorry, I was misunderstood I was just saying that Child abusers ought not procreate. Was a little drunk when I wrote the above.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · in other words- 'i fucked up and shouldn't drink anymore because i might get myself in deep shit while i'm drunk.'........ yeah, i agree that u ahouldn't drink anymore monkeyboy.........
Shorty / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Adrian sounds right, it seems like an unnesecary amount of jelousy for some reason, but another reason could be because like you said your a gay man, its because your not attracted to women to man pornography or your comparing your self to him or her another possible reason is that you dont think the woman should be with the man? perhaps she doesnt deserve a man like the one in the porn, or where ever. It could also just be a deep psychological thing, personally im a straight woman and i dont enjoy heterosexual porn, i perfer watching lesbian i dont know why. There could be numerous awnsers, who knows. dont stress about itt..
zMach7 · Part of that sounds about right. I definitely agree with the first like and that I don't think the woman should be with the man like the one in the porn. Those are most definitely part of it. I don't know what deep psychological thing it could be though.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · ok, let me be blunt and honest- MOST OF THE PORN STARS, MEN AND WOMEN, ARE ALL RIDICULOUSLY SHALLOW AS FUCK. they deserve each other, gay/straight/otherwise.
Noname1970 / 42 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Whatever the issue, it sounds like it's rather deep. You really need to talk to a professional about this, but if you choose not to, remember, this is your problem, not the problem of heterosexuals being heterosexual.
zMach7 · Of course it's my problem. I am only here looking for help and answers.
Noname1970 · Sorry if that came off as brusque, it wasn't my intent. My point is that you should specifically remember this WHILE you're experiencing the reaction.... it will take the focus off of WHAT'S bothering you and let you more easily see WHY it is. In other words, pay attention to your reactions rather than simply experiencing them.
zMach7 · I mean I have sat and thought about why I felt this way. I have identified somethings but generally there is something bothering me. It is probably something deep and psychological.
Noname1970 · Yes, that's very likely. I can't stress enough how much you should talk about this with a professional: you're not going to find an answer here, it's going to take a lot of psychological exploration. I imagine it's difficult enough being gay in a predominately straight society.... you shouldn't have to carry this around too..
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · i have to agree with noname. u SHOULDN'
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · SHOULDN'T carry this around. you have more than enough on ur plate.
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