So, things between me and my girl are starting to transition to sex, and although we're not ready for the real thing yet, we've been experimenting with each other a lot. Recently, she gave me my first handjob and it was....underwhelming to say the least. It didn't feel good at all, definitely worse than when I do it myself. She even blew me periodically throughout, and all I felt was a slightly warm sensation, no pleasure at all. I couldn't cum and had to stop her after about 20 minutes of this. There was nothing wrong with her technique; she clearly knew what she was doing.
So now I'm left wondering what went wrong. At first I thought it was because I'm circumcised, and apparently it's not as good as uncircumcised. But I dismissed that because even if it is a bit worse cut, cut guys still enjoy it; maybe not as much, but they obviously feel it's good enough to want it all the time. But, as I said earlier, I felt nothing at all, no sensitivity whatsoever. Which makes no sense to me because my penis is usually very sensitive when I'm turned on/masturbating. Any ideas?
And for anyone responding, please no "OMG CIRCUMCISION IS THE WORST THING EVER YOUR PARENTS MUTILATED YOUR DICK!!!!". One, from my research into the subject (from people who got cut later in life and have thus had sex both ways), it is worse, but not THAT much worse. Two, I get it. It wasn't my choice, so you don't need to tell me. I'm against it, and would change it if I could; so please, just focus on my initial question. Thanks in advance!
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Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
Hey owner. I am too tired for a really good reply, but, we all feel things differently.
Her technique might not be right for you. YOUR own sexual response needs to be focused on. There is no cookie cutter recipe for great sex. If you don't guide her and know what is your liking or not liking, you will be lost. She is doing her best, you need to put in effort to. Wether its getting a hand job, or boiking like rabbits, you need to communicate. most men in the USA are circumcised, that is not the issue.
IF you are used to jackhammering your cock when you masturbate, you may not be getting the kind of stim you need from your lady. Many of my GF's i had to talk about their masturbation habits to see what they are used to. From there you can explore and branch offf. Next time you wack off, think about what your doing, how it feels, and use it to guide your lady
good luck my man
Owner276 · That....makes a lot of sense actually, thanks a lot!
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