well i was wondering cause i was told that there IS such thing as having too much rough sex. I have sex (obviously) with my husband and i like to go rough and there have been times where im sore after words lol well more than a few times but i love like that its just a wicked orgie for me i dont know if there's a limit i thought the limit was when its really hurts and you have to ask him to stop is there anything im missing??? i don't do the whole whips and chains and ball in the mouth thing but i do have a pair of fluffy white handcuffs :P
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Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
Only you and your husband can determine what is too rough. If you are causing lasting
injuries, you may wish to reconsider the whole thing, but if you are both will, consenting adults with all your mental faculties intact, no forced rough play ( as in truly against your will ) IC no issues here. GG is may want to pipe in on this one, but my guess is is fine.
many people do have a safety word just encase. Something to think about.
Cant hurt to talk to your man about it as well so you are in a common space around the issue.
GL have fun!
Otto
GG · If you start to bleed from places you really shouldn't be bleeding from then you know you have done too much and need to seek medical help. Many forms of BDSM actuall involve blood and extreme pain, the body can actually take a lot. So i second what Otto says and go with, if it hurts you too much then that's your limit.
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