I've been dating this perfect girl. She's amazing except something is wrong down south. Every so often she stops me from going down on her. It's very strange to me that she does this because I enjoy doing it. Is she trying to tell me something? I'm beginning to think she isn't all that clean down there now because I know she isn't stopping me because she loves it. Why is she doing this?
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Chad / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Well it all depends on how you're doing it. If you're just going straight down there after kissing her a few times, then she probably wants some foreplay. Play with her nipples, kiss her neck, breath very lightly in her ears. Rub her head a little bit. They all help.
If it is a hygiene thing, well there isn't much you can do about that. She has to do that.
Also, when she stops you from going down her, do you guys have sex? If you have sex, that's just weird. If you dont, maybe it's because she's not horny.
Zack / Woman / Likes Men / Single
My girl did the same thing, at first she told me it was because the first time someone went down on her it was forced, so it was a bad experience. She also says she likes kissing during sex and does not like the kissing with a sloppy wet face. Maybe one of the two is your girls problem too.
Justmexo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Some women just don’t like oral sex when performed on them. It’s just a personal preference and probably has nothing to do with your oral skills or her personal hygiene. In fact, some women can only orgasm through intercourse and I highly doubt there’s something wrong with her down-there region if she’s still sexually active with you and vice versa.
If this is something that’s really bothering you, you should definitely communicate it to her and simply ask if she likes/dislikes receiving oral. With some communication you can learn what she truly likes and dislikes before and during sex. Maybe she even prefers giving oral instead of receiving it…find out!
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