Problems with myself??

My name is kari. I'm 19 and I've had sex a few time and been fingered plenty with my boyfriend. He keeps wanting to do three things to my body. One he keeps askingabout fucking my ass. I just don't know if that's healthy or what? 2nd he brings up the idea of me fisting myself. I've tried and can't get there. It seems like it would feel good so how can I make it work without hurting my pussy. And the last thing I wanna ask is. When I finger myself, and get to the climaxing part I get really really wet. Then I feel like I'm gunna pee. But I keep going because it feelsreally good. So then a look of fluid comes squirting out and soaks my bed like seriously soaks it. Is that. Atural or normal for a girl to be able to do that? Any helpful

Kitty,

Anal intercourse: it can be perfectly safe. If you want to attempt it, use a condom and lubricant, take your time and go slowly. If you're rather tight, have your bf wear a latex glove with lubricated fingers and play with your ass to help you adjust better before he attempts. When he begins to enter, exhale and relax. It helps if you massage your clitoris and remember to relax...if you tense..it will hurt.

Vaginal Fisting: The act of fisting is when you place your entire hand, up to the wrist, inside either the vagina or ass. There is no real way of 'not making it hurt your pussy' , so I suggest if you're not into that type of pain, not to attempt it. If you do want to try it, use sufficient lubricant and it helps if you prepare yourself with varied sizes of dildos to help 'stretch' yourself out prior to your attempt. Make your hand like a cone shape with all your fingertips together.

Squirting: Squirting isn't extremely common, but it isn't extremely rare either. Many women can produce a clear/milky fluid during their climax.

Hope this helped. Good luck