Can i ask one last question, only you could answer this heaven. being i am to under confident about being with a girl, you think it`s a good idea to stop looking and just enjoy life while single and a virgin? i said no to that girl, i did not trust. you have any advice about gaining confidence? or is it something i have to achieve my self?:| i assume you never met someone like me before? you have no idea how small i feel right now, no i don`t mean penis size. can you answer these last questions for me?:) sorry if i was rude before, and thanks in advance.
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Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
Hapas: They say "fake it till ya make it." Here is a link to a column about male body language that shows girls your confident. Perhaps if you try some out, make them habit rather than just swagger, you might just develope confidence from pretending.
http://www.altpenis.com/penis_news/fi...
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Never stop looking. Ever. Don't go SEARCHING for love all the time, but never be blind to it if it happens to pass by. It'll come along when you least expect it. Some girl out of no where, that you may have never seen or met before, will come across you one day and totally take your breath away. Her look will mesmerize you. Her words will enchant you. Her actions will inspire you. And her soul will leave you speechless. Then dear, you will know you are in love :)
Self confidence is something that you just sort of pick up on. I lacked it for a number of years until I simply got tired of being tossed to the side. I knew I was a damn good person with a lot to offer. If people couldn't see that, fuck them. You have to start seeing whatever the good is inside of you and just wear it with pride. Someone will come to find it one of these days.
Look yourself in the mirror every day and tell yourself one reason why other people should like you...one reason why you like yourself. Do that every single day for a long long time, and eventually you will start to believe it.
You're not the first poor little sap I've met that just needs a boost to get started. I can't provide tht for you though. You have to provide it for yourself. :)
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