I'm a bit of a diamond in the rough I suppose. I am a trans-gendered Female-to-Male. It's been a very difficult and long process, but I've transitioned enough to the point where I feel good about my body. Now, the thing is that I haven't gotten a new penis, which means I look and feel like a guy but I have a vagina, not a penis. I don't have any intentions to go back under surgery to have a new sex organ added because it's costly and I don't think it's necessary. I'm ready to go back into the dating scene and meet other guys (I am gay), but I don't know to discuss the fact that I'm lacking the necessary component to make me male. How can I talk to my potential partners about this?
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Xxxmdkxxx / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Maybe you can try to find some groups or forums for people who are trans-gender. I'm sure this isn't the first time this kind of question has come up.
Justmexo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
This is a tough question to answer. I would say that you should do what makes you feel comfortable. Meaning that if you are planning on going on dates and putting yourself out there then you should be aware that situations may arise where people will may be a little upset if you don't tell them your situation.
Now on another note, it's not necessarily anyone else's business until you decide to take that next step towards intimacy with another person. I'm sure there are groups and other individuals in the same position as yourself that you could speak with to get more feedback from. I always say the best thing to do is to do what you feel is best without hurting or affecting any other parties involved. I hope this helps a bit.
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