Dildo or Vibrator

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I want to give my girlfriend a toy for holidays and when I'm away on vacation. Obviously this is better than her sleeping with someone else :-)

So what should I give her, dildo, or vibrator?


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Exokisa
Exokisa / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I think it’s a great idea! I wish my boyfriend had thought to give me such gifts all those times he went away on vacation. Does your girlfriend have any other toys? If so, does she seem to show more preference for dildos or vibrators? You should get her whatever she likes more of course.

If she has little or no experience with sex toys, I recommend taking a look at www.babeland.com. That’s where I get all my toys. You can even check out the staff picks. People who’ve bought the toys comment on them so you can get an idea of what they enjoyed and why. Check out their best seller list.

There are so many that it might be hard to choose, but don’t stress. Just tell your girlfriend your idea and have her go to the website to pick out what she’d like. She’ll still thank you and there is a better chance of her really enjoying the toy if she picks it out herself. If at all possible, take a trip down to one of their stores. It’s a fun experience. Best of luck.

almost 3 years ago
Samus
Samus / Woman / Likes Men / Single

vibrator. the clitoral stimulated orgasm is much easier to obtain for a girl when masturbating.

plus, it can be used for nipple stimulation, and you can have fun by using it on her.. and she can use it on you, too. (you wouldn't want her using a dildo on you, would you?)

almost 3 years ago
Erihanna7
Erihanna7 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

vibrator!!!!!!!

almost 3 years ago
Sexnthecity2000
Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

These days, there are so many options for a gal looking for a toy. Has your girlfriend ever experimented with toys before? Does she enjoy an orgasm from manual or oral stimulation of her clitoris or from intercourse? A dildo commonly is used as a ‘replacement’ for a penis, and goes inside of a woman to simulate sex, whereas a vibrator vibrates (obviously) and can both be used inside the vagina but also for clitoral stimulation. I would go with a mid-sized vibrator. That way, your girlfriend can experiment with putting it inside her vagina OR rubbing it on her clitoris. If you are nervous about what kind to get her, take her with you to the store, or even browse online and see what strikes her fancy.

almost 3 years ago

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