Good Bi To The Good Girl

I am a single female. I was raised in quite a strict household, and was a the proverbial good girl. I lost my virginity at 19 to my high school sweetheart. We did not marry, and I am (obviously) still not married yet. I am 26 now and have been getting sick and tired of keeping my moral standards up to so called par. I have learned that there is a lot more to sex than i originally thought. Lately I find myself getting aroused by the sight of 2 women together, as well as soft core bondage items. I have imagined having an encounter with a woman, but don't even know where or how to start a female/female sexual relationship. I still like men, but could I be bi-sexual or do all (or most) women go through this at one time or another?

You're 26 years old, single, which means now is the perfect time to play with your sexuality. As to whether or not you want to assign yourself the identity of either bi-sexual or lesbian is up to you. If you haven't been with a woman, then no one really knows where your sexuality may lie until you start dating! You can meet other women in a number of places. If you live in a metropolitan area, then do some research and find out which lesbian bars or parties are popular in your neighborhood. Join clubs or groups (they do not have to be LGBT-affiliated) where you can meet more people and hopefully women who want to get to know you better. In smaller towns, you might have to go out and search for lesbian bars (sometimes they hold "Lesbian Nights" in bars and clubs) Go out and have a couple of experiences and see how you feel about them. Light bondage is always a fun little game to play in the bedroom. If you're meeting someone for the first time, then wait a date or two before whipping out the handcuffs. Talk to them about their comfort zones and that way the both of you can have fun. In any case, the more you date and develop relationships (whether serious or casual), the more you'll develop a stronger sense of what ultimately turns you on.

Answered by xtinacicchelli about 1 year ago.
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