I'm 24 years old and an out and proud bisexual lady. I've really enjoyed my sexual experiences, but it's usually been with other bisexual or bicurious women or straight guys (once with another bi guy). But, I've been into this girl that works at my coffeeshop. We've been talking alot and getting to know each other. She dropped the bomb that she was a lesbian (out and proud too) and is single and available. She's really attractive, and when I flirt with her she flirts back so I know there's a chemistry there. But, how do can a bisexual girl like myself ask a lesbian (like my coffee lady) out for a date?
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Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
You said it yourself: you are now feeling confidant and sexy about yourself—so don’t lose those feelings!!! When you are feeling a little insecure, think about all the men who have been attracted to you in the past, and how you enjoy your body and sexuality. It sounds like you and your new crush got along so well the first night you met, so use that confidence and excitement to ask him out! If you already had such a great chemistry talking to each other, sounds like the next step is a date. Just go for it and ask him out. Do not give your size a thought. If you are confidant and feel beautiful, he will see that beauty—both on the inside and out—and be swept away!
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