I'm a 49 year old man. I am divorced. I feel free as a bird now, and go out to clubs A LOT. I really like being single again and am kind of proud to show up at work a little worse for wear! It makes me feel like when I was 18 all over again! One problem though, I find myself attracted to much younger women and vice versa. The last club I was at I realized that the girl I was chatting up was almost that, a girl. She couldn't have been more than 21 or so. I feel like a peacock and an a-hole in the same token, I have a kid that's 17, but I don't like women my age, so I'm caught in my own oxymoron! What can I do?
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Jersey1 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
If you don't wanna get into trouble with the law for statutory rape, I suggest you leave the club-scene. I'm sure half the women you've met aren't even old enough to drink or even legal.
And if you want to still have fun and meet younger women, checkout a local happy hour scene. The women won't get you into trouble, will most likely be younger than you and still aiming to have fun, and you won't feel like such a grandpa.
Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
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What is it about these younger girls that turn you on? Their physical beauty? The face they are so young? Do they make YOU feel younger yourself? There is nothing wrong with dating outside of your age range. However, going TOO young can lead to an imbalance in maturity or life experience. If you are attracted to younger women, why not try dating women in their 30s? They are still younger than you, but also have some life experience that can factor in to a good relationship. Plus, you will stay out of trouble with the law! Besides clubs, try going to different bars and restaurants where you might meet someone. Also, there are plenty of single’s groups out there that will have plenty of women who are young AND beautiful.
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