Hello! I am a straight guy and 27 years old. I used to have a male friend a while back who would every once in a while masturbate with me and we would every once in a while give each other hand jobs. i THINK once or twice we gave each other oral sex. But those were usually the very drunken nights lol. Well i know i am NOT gay but enjoyed messing around with him just because he was good looking and i liked giving him pleasure. I am basically wondering why i like playing around with him penis so much if i KNOW i am not gay? I would probably do it again if he called me up right now. Problem now though is that i have been in a serious relationship with a girl for over 2 years lol... and if she found out my history with him she would probably be disgusted with me or somethin.. I guess i just wanna know why i enjoyed messing around with him and why id do it again lol. i dono.. confused!
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Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
Yeah, mister, Its ok man, its a hard struggle for many people when they have feelings and desires that are not well received in popular culture. Sounds like your are attracted to men and thats all good. If your attracted to women as well that is also fine.
What isnt fine is if your cheating on your girl. So thing about it all you like, but its only fair to be open or break up with your lady if you plan on pursuing your other interest.
There doesnt have to be any reason for your attraction. You dont have to justify it.
its ok my man, be yourself, accept yourself. Life is short. it really really is.
12GAUGE · You need to MAN UP and tell your gal what you have told us. As a couple you should both get tested for STDs ASAP. As Otto Man said it's OK to be bi tho everyone in Society does not agree. I personally can't get along with all people and many of those I think are full of shit. But I don't worry about it either. But you definitely need to MAN UP. In the olden days it was called Doing The Right Thing. Good Luck Bro.
Jojocupcake12 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Single
dude sorry to say but you are gay well bi any way its not a bad thing to be gay. but you are gay thats why just be yourself and you should tell your girlfriend to be safe to your health and hers so please tell her
12GAUGE / Man / Likes Bisexuals / Single
Sounds to me like you might be Bi. But understand too you were wasted drunk with your friend several times and both of you were/got horny and did what horny people often do. Nothing wrong with that. On the other hand you should be true to your gf or break up with her and be with your guy if that's what you really wanna do. Or you could breach the subject of a 3some with your girl and your friend. But a 3some like this where you have sexual history with him could still be construed as 'cheating' with your current gf. You need to sit down and sort this out. Do you love your woman?? Or do you love your man?? Only you know the answer. At the very least you and your gal should get tested for STDs. When she asks you why tell her EVERYTHING. Hard as it is you need to MAN UP. What would John Wayne DO???
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