I don't know how this sounds-I really love my man with all my heart and we have been together for almost 2 years now-but I have never really cared for playing with any man's penis and I have told him that. I also have more fantasies about females (mostly boobs) then I do of his penis. I have kissed girls before but never got that far...do you think it would help with what I fantasize about if maybe he and I involved another girl? How could I bring it up to him? To him that is cheating...to me...NO
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Really? A man that doesn't want a threesome? WEIRD. In my experience, you mention another woman in a relationship and it's an instant hard on. Sooo, hmmmm.
Not liking a dick is not necessarily a rarity. Countless married women are subject to saying "Damn, look at that rack" before they even consider the tastiness of a man's package. Perhaps you should ask him about some of his fantasies and try to accommodate those with yours. For instance, does he want to get into anal play? Does he like bondage? Does he have a foot fetish? What about a tit fuck? There are so many options, and relationships are all about give and take. If you are willing to respond to his needs, you can at least open his mind to yours.
If you need to argue your case, you can talk about how it couldn't possibly be cheating if you are both involved. He would reap a LOT of benefits from the event, just like you would. I think he may just be insecure, thinking the new woman will steal your attention. What you need to make him realize is that he WILL be the attention because he is the odd one out. You'll both need his dick. You'll both want to please him. And hell, if the new girl likes penises more than you, he's going to get even more pleasure. Really, you're doing him a service, letting him watch two girls make out and then fight for his dick. Lucky man.
Ha, I wrote a book on this it seems, but I think you get my point. I wish you all the best of luck.
Firefighter66 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
In my experience most guys are afraid of what she said. If he knows that you are bi he probably doesn’t want you to realize that you like girls more. And if he knows you don’t really like dick then of course he is insecure. You need to be strait up with him. Not go behind his back. Show him you are dedicated to him. And with the threesome tell him what you expect to go on.
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