I'm a Virgin, 22 male and i have 3 questions:
1) I have a fantacy for forced sex. I usually indulge in roleplays in chat rooms. My biggest fantacy is that i being a female and being raped by a guy, rarely i also fantacize about me being a male and raping a girl. Seldom do i fantacize about a normal mutual sex.
The problem is that normal mutual sex does not turn me on most of the times, what should i do?
2) I don't have a desire for full intercourse and i get satisfied in the foreplay itself while roleplaying or masturbating, infact sometimes i have going below the waist while roleplaying (Outer course is more appealing than the intercourse) How should i overcome this?
3) I masutrbate by lying down face down and rubbing my penis to the bed till i cum and i have never done the normal way of masturbation also i cum very quickly, it takes not more than 5 minutes while masturbating. Is this way of masturbation related to my problems mentioned above?
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I'll just break it down like you did...
1) If you have a partner who isn't willing to roleplay, then you'll just have to run the fantasies in your head or move on to someone else. Not everyone is into forced sex, so if you want your cage to rattle, you might have to do some searching.
2) I don't know if that is necessarily something to overcome. As long as you can have some regular sex, getting off on outercourse is just fine. If you have to get over that somehow, then try using the same outercourse moves and positions without any clothes. The sensations won't be quite the same, but they may help you get off still.
3) It probably is related to the other "problem", but I don't think it's much of a problem at all really. Many women can orgasm by simply rubbing their vagina on a pillow vigorously. It's just like dry humping without another person.
In the end, all I really have to say to you is that as long as you are having good orgasms, there shouldn't be an issue. Find a willing partner to play into your fantasies, and commit yourself to working in theirs too. Good sex is all about the give and take.
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