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Abez / Man / Likes Women / Single

I know, i know everybody is telling me that; everybody is telling me this even though they all get to di it, this is like hipocracy though! :(
what if I don't want to wait... i mean what if I die tomorrow,
i know it has responsibilities and everything but I can't hold myself
okai, then at least can somone give me suggestions on what i oculd do to make the feelings go away?

Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · ok, abez, you may think it's hypocrisy, but guess what? YOU'RE SIX-FUCKING-TEEN! hypocrisy would be if another 16 year old was telling you to wait while they were fucking a random person. get it right. now, you won't EVER get rid of the feelings (well, there IS a way, but that requires A LOT of surgery i'm sure you wouldn't like). now, i can tell you from experience that losing ur virginity at 16 (like i did) to someone you have little to no feelings for (again, like i did) means sex won't be special to you for a while. it took me 5 years to make sex emotionally meaningful to me.

Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single

Hey buddy. its really hard to see past your own needs, your own perspective. that is only natural. We are speaking from our own experience and the knowledge of having lived life for a while. We have all been through this phase of life. though your experience is yours alone and differrnt from ours. It is also the same in its difference if that makes sense. Its hard. really difficult at times i know man. You have to release the pressure and masturbate. All the while you need to get out there and meet girls. Sex is earned through mutual desire and relationship. Go make connections and you will get there, i promise. In the mean time study up on sex and be prepared for when you find the right person.

Until then jerk off and take off some pressure.

Abez / Man / Likes Women / Single

okai thanks guyz ;) i guess i could wait. You really helped me snap out of my hypnosis :P just two more questions
1. i know this sounds weird but what did you mean by making connections otto? sex wise or an actual healthy relationship wise
2. if you are talking about having a relationship ... there is this girl I have really liked for a long time (almost 3 years now) she is single but she is always busy.
If i told my parents i like her they would kill me, i was actually thinking of proposing to her because that is the only way in my religion. or i could become a renigade but that also wouldn't work, i know this sounds crazy but what should i do? she is christian and i am muslim and the only way we could be together is if she changed her faith... what should i do????

Abez / Man / Likes Women / Single

okai thanks guyz ;) i guess i could wait. You really helped me snap out of my hypnosis :P just two more questions
1. i know this sounds weird but what did you mean by making connections otto? sex wise or an actual healthy relationship wise
2. if you are talking about having a relationship ... there is this girl I have really liked for a long time (almost 3 years now) she is single but she is always busy.
If i told my parents i like her they would kill me, i was actually thinking of proposing to her because that is the only way in my religion. or i could become a renigade but that also wouldn't work, i know this sounds crazy but what should i do? she is christian and i am muslim and the only way we could be together is if she changed her faith... what should i do????

Abez / Man / Likes Women / Single

okai thanks guyz ;) i guess i could wait. You really helped me snap out of my hypnosis :P just two more questions
1. i know this sounds weird but what did you mean by making connections otto? sex wise or an actual healthy relationship wise
2. if you are talking about having a relationship ... there is this girl I have really liked for a long time (almost 3 years now) she is single but she is always busy.
If i told my parents i like her they would kill me, i was actually thinking of proposing to her because that is the only way in my religion. or i could become a renigade but that also wouldn't work, i know this sounds crazy but what should i do? she is christian and i am muslim and the only way we could be together is if she changed her faith... what should i do????

Abez / Man / Likes Women / Single

okai thanks guyz ;) i guess i could wait. You really helped me snap out of my hypnosis :P just two more questions
1. i know this sounds weird but what did you mean by making connections otto? sex wise or an actual healthy relationship wise
2. if you are talking about having a relationship ... there is this girl I have really liked for a long time (almost 3 years now) she is single but she is always busy.
If i told my parents i like her they would kill me, i was actually thinking of proposing to her because that is the only way in my religion. or i could become a renigade but that also wouldn't work, i know this sounds crazy but what should i do? she is christian and i am muslim and the only way we could be together is if she changed her faith... what should i do????
and btw how do i add or delete photos on this site?

Abez / Man / Likes Women / Single

okai thanks guyz ;) i guess i could wait. You really helped me snap out of my hypnosis :P just two more questions
1. i know this sounds weird but what did you mean by making connections otto? sex wise or an actual healthy relationship wise
2. if you are talking about having a relationship ... there is this girl I have really liked for a long time (almost 3 years now) she is single but she is always busy.
If i told my parents i like her they would kill me, i was actually thinking of proposing to her because that is the only way in my religion. or i could become a renigade but that also wouldn't work, i know this sounds crazy but what should i do? she is christian and i am muslim and the only way we could be together is if she changed her faith... what should i do????
and by the way how do i add or delete photos on this site?

Otto · Connections relationships wise my man. sex can be just a lustful animal act. It can also be a meaningful experience between two people, with respect and love. Quality takes time and commitment. quantity just takes effort and aggression. I cannot say one way or the other about the conflict of your religious social circumstance. Your social ties are bound in traditions. You need to weight all that out for your self. You alone need to deal with your life, your choices, your desires. Breaking with your traditions and familial ties will be a hard thing. You may find comfort in the conformity, structure, and support there within. You are young, and your whole life is ahead of you. It is ok to sit at the fork in the road and take time to think it through. You will have a life time to explore and find love and sex. Your current life circumstance has many walls, twists and turns. Bide your time and find the right person. Then you can weigh your risks and benefits. Keep in mind that most relationships dont last long. a few moments of pleasure can have a life time of regrets. Right now you are a minor and a ward of your parents. a few years you will legally be an adult. From there your work ethic and the sky is the limit. g

Otto · I mean most early relationships *

Blufire · in my opinion i don't think you should tell her you like her not your parents and i think that your parents shouldn't be a part of your love life or your sex life and like a few of the other members of this website i think you should wait and its now a very ling wait its only two years and they can go by really fast and a lot can happen in those two years so just relax man and see where life takes you but if i were you i would tell that girl you like her

Abez · ...

Abez · the thing is... i did, but that was like 2 years ago, back then things where different; she was and still is busy, she told me that she was focusing on her studies and stuff and that i should persue my academic potentail. I am and i a did listen to what she said... and i don't blame her, the thing is I am afraid to tell her again to see what she thinks. now i really like her... i don't know if she serously likes me.. but we have casual convorsations every now and then

Abez · but the hardest part would be the whole religous aspect

Blufire · does she stick around you a lot? because if she does stick around it means she likes you

Abez · for the most part NO because we are in two completely different cities now, I am in Brantford and she is in Windsor

Blufire · wel back when you were in the same city

Abez · nnnaaadaa :( unfortonulty there where alot of barriers

Abez / Man / Likes Women / Single

oops, i posted my post 3 times! :P

Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single

I think it would be wise to understand contraception, and the risks of pregnancy/ venereal diseases. One night of fun can have life changing, and unwanted implications. Get to know some girls. start relationships, and make your hand your best friend for now. I know its rough man, i remember when i was a teen. Wood city constantly.
Good luck!

Blufire / Man / Likes Women / Single

dude hold on for a while when i was your age i lost it to some random girl and after a while you think it wasn't so good because it wasn't with a person you really like. its a lot of responsibility to have sex because you have to take care of yourself and it would be a lot better if you did it you know from a long time

Mr / 21 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

dont be in to much of a hurry to loose your virginity when you find the right girl it will just happen and it will be the best thing ever if you rush into it it may not be as fun so just take your time.