I have a weird situation going on with my neighbor. He's really attractive; I've actually had a thing for him since I moved in a couple of months ago. We've grown really close as neighbors; he comes over to fix things and sometime we'll watch movies together and hang out. Recently, when were hanging out, he spilled the beans and told me that he's always had a thing for me. I was flattered, to say the least. Then, he told me that liked cleaning for me and he would like it more if I would speak down to him when he does it. He told me that he's really into being a submissive, forced to do chores or run errands for a bitchy, beautiful woman. I was turned on by this, for some reason or another. I've never heard guys being into that. So, we tried it out one day and it was really hot. He came over and completely cleaned my home! Then, I let him give me a foot massage! This would be an awesome situation, if not for the fact that I'm already in a 6 month relationship with another cool guy. I know he wouldn't be into this, and I don't want to lose my housemaid. How can I handle the boyfriend and my submissive?
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Xxxmdkxxx / Woman / Likes Men / Single
You have a boyfriend and a neighbor that you have the hots for. The only way you can have both is if your boyfriend is ok with you doing this kind of thing, like open relationships and stuff. If he's not, then one of them has to hit the road.
Justmexo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
This is difficult to answer. First and foremost you must decide which is more appealing to you just in case you MUST make a choice. I feel that the only way to keep the both of them will be to have an open realtionship and let them both know where this is going in total or choose one and take the loss of not having another.
I'm assuming your boyfriend of 6 months is not aware of the foot massage or anything. If he isn't maybe you could communicate with him that you are very much turned on by these things so that he can please you in this fashion. If you don't tell either of them or make a choice I feel you will eventually lose one of them if not both. I hope this helps.
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