i love being teased it makes really horny and makes me wanna jump him, he loves when i make the first move, but he doesnt realise that if he teases me then he'll get that, but the thing is he doesnt like to wait after we get into the mood and sometimes im just not as horny as i wanna be. what do i do to convice him with out sounding like im pusshing him.
i really want him to, he doesnt like to be teased so i keep it a very minimal even though i like to tease as well, but i just want to be teased and i dont get any teasing.
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Regkit / Woman / Likes Men / Single
dont be shy.If he tells u what he want from u in terms of sex,also tell what you feel he should do to make you more horny before the action.LOVE IS ABOUT 2 HEARTS THAT ARE OPEN 2 EACH OTHER.
Zennsketch / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Communicate.
If you can't tell your boyfriend what you want sexually and what you're lacking from him, your relationship is doomed to fail. Take a deep breath, take his hand in yours and tell him you love being close with him, and if he really wants to make you hotter than he's ever seen, explain that you love to be teased. If that doesn't work, SHOW him what you mean the next time you're getting intimate.
The strongest and most worthwhile sexual connections are those that remember to LISTEN to their partners. If your bf still doesn't want to take your suggestions into consideration, there may be more important problems that should be addressed.
Also, you could try this technique:
during the day, send him little dirty text messages, or randomly tease him for a few seconds in the day before work, or send him a teasing story in a short email...if you tease HIM, he may understand more easily when you try to explain that you enjoy teasing as well :)
Oneman123 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Exactyl communication is the key here. If it turns you on greatly then tell him cuz in turn it would turn him on and then you two are gonna from there if you know what I mean
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