I always wanted to give a lap dance to my husband to get us both worked up, but i always feel grossed out by my body even though he thinks its hot. The reason I dnt like my body is im a little over weight and im tryin to to lose weight , but for my husband ill put on a short dress,heels, my red reading glasses, and put my hair in pigtails. I dnt know what to do. Does anyone have tips?
8 Replies
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
honestly, and bluntly, it's all in ur head! let me tell you the simplest truth- no man, NO MAN, can honestly say ur NOT sexy as all fuck while he has a hard on! it's just impossible! and you need to change ur mindset to take ur man's comments and actions towards you to be true!
Honey · thank you for your honesty :D i appreciate it
Honey · I'm still a bit scared to try it again cause last time i tried it before my husband came along the guy only put his thumb in and it hurt like a mother fucker idk if it more scared me or what but it hurt
Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
Honey, the fact that you want to do this for your man is sexier than all get up.
try looking into his eyes and see the love/lust in his eyes and let it motivate you.
OR close your eyes and let your imagination run wild. A big part of being sexy is feeling sexy. You are dressing up and wearing your glasses, awesome! role play! transform yourself in your mind. Thats what role playing is all about. A little extra weight is only as bad as you feel about it. I personally love a little extra as well as a slender lass. make sure to play your favorite music that moves you..
Good luck! and wow what a lucky man you have =D
Honey · thanx for the advice i will take all this in i like hearing it more from men lol cause well you you can more by asking the opposite sec
Honey · lol you made me blush a little bit
Honey / 23 / Woman / Likes Men / Married
do you think I might get more relaxed if I played music or something???? other times when I don't dress up we just pretend we're having an affair and say things like "you better hurry brefoe my husband get here" or "I hope my wife don't come home early" lol honestly its a real wicked turn on and it keeps you sex life a lil more exciting :P
<3
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · do i think u'd be more relaxed w/ music? ......uh, YEAH! u sound like u might enjoy urself more by role playing, as you sonta do w/ ur "hurry 4 my hubby cums home" stuff, so yeah!
Add your reply to Honey