How do you initiate teasing with someone who doesn't get it?

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Over the years I have had many boyfriends. My signature thing is to tease them until they can't take it and it usually makes the sex better. Recently, I started dating this guy who all he wants to do is jump right into things. There is no teasing, no foreplay, nothing. I asked him about it once and all he could say is, "What babe? You're hot." It is really frustrating me because the sex isn't what I am used to. What should I do?

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Sexnthecity2000
Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Sex with everyone is going to be different. You have to open your mind to new ways with different people. However, if you want more foreplay, you and your man could find exciting ways to prolong actual intercourse. Tell him it gets YOU hot to hold back in the beginning. Tell him you like to slowly undress or be undressed. Drive him wild by nibbling on his neck, his ears, his throat, and give him cues to do the same to you. Use a feather, or something else soft, to tickle his body ALL over. Hopefully, you will be able to meet in the middle and both be satisfied.

about 3 years ago
Oneman123
Oneman123 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

You have to play mind games with him,you have to initiate first but do it on him that way he would do the same for you. Just try expirementin with new things

almost 3 years ago

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