There is this girl who i have noticed has recently started looking at me and trying to be near me. The thing is that she is also rather friendly with this other guy who they have been friends with since kindergarten. Is she attracted to him and just playing with me? Am i just imagining it all? She is a really nice girl and i am afraid to ask her out in fear of being rejected and made look like an idiot. I could not go to the same school as she after that…
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Micheal / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
Just talk to her and don't bring the other guy into it. Another suggestion is find a way to talk to the other guy. Be honest with him about your attentions and ask him what's up. Conversation is the best way to get your feelings out. If they have been friends as long as you say he will either give you info, tell you to step off, or you two may be friends. Odds are he is just as confused about the attraction politics as you are. In the end the best way to handle it is to be honest with all concerned. And if you can be patient, you will see that there are so much other stuff that will consume your days. And if your honest and communicate with this guy and just be her friend there will be others around you that will come into the picture. Girls talk WAY more than you think. The honesty and respectful ways you handle yourself will do all the talking for you without ever saying anything about your desires. We are all the same when it comes down to it. Please never hold back. Talk to mom or pop about what goes on at school. You may feel wierd at first but they have been thru alot more than you know and nothing you read here will mean as much as there input. The secrets you keep are only gonna hurt you. The first and BEST place to start is with your mom. Good Luck!
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