Am a male experimenting with my fiance of 6 months with the wedding in 6 months. We have been friends for 26 years and are both experienced. We both view anal penitration as taboo yet are great fans of soothing massages for foreplay. She is limited in her sexual life and i experienced in many things yet have viewed the anal region as acidic thus enjoy bathing her and that area only to enjoy cunnilingus better. Have been told that a woman enjoys surface stimulation as well as no more than a 3 to 6 inch penatration either by small vibration toy or the use of a dental dam and tongue. Have experienced the prep for anal yet when it came to the act i am unable to go further. I firmly believe that the anus and the muscles are far to delicate to ever be penitrated and no orgasm is worth it.. My question surrounds a womans ability to be pleased thru surface stimulation of primarily massage intentions. Will never be interested in expecting her to go thru the arduous process of cleaning and enemas ect..., and am truly turned off. Yet I wish to release my taboos and am willing to do what ever it takes to allow her all the joy physically possible both in foreplay as well as her levels of orgasms if they may be reached through my relaxation of rather puritanical adherance to my taboos. Again, my questions are only about a way to give her relaxation, pleasure and foreplay or seduction. Making the sexual experience the best for her that can be. To further add details; i am willing to cleans the area and allow tactile stimulation with my tongue and additional temperature variations if you suggest yet have purchased and am to be using dams in the intern so as to slowly move forward in our explorations. Have had several female friends say that to have a man lick there is an arousing experience yet all these suggestion have been taken as only turn offs or even attempts at pranks. Additionally it is my understanding that a small sticklike vibrator with a small egg like bulb can be used so as to not damage the internal muscles of the anus and provide stimulation during cunnilingus or even vaginal penitration with toy or my own penis.yet would find it unappealing unless if she were to be unable to enjoy this. Also have rabbit with additional clitoral stimulator that could act as an anal tickler so please include this in your evaluations and or advice if probable. All education and suggestions are very appreciated. Thank you for your time.
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Micheal / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
been trying to erase these yet system isnt doing it... found the answers and no longer need a reply. And the duplicate was also trying to be erased. it was accidentally posted. Hope a system administrator responds to requests.
Micheal / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
in case anyone is interested....the entire experience was a waste of time. as usual my loving mate was curious on many levels yet was only interested in my pleasure as well. thus she found it as unappealing as i. and the dental dam was just as useless. She did like the vibrating plug. It was all about the feeling of grabbing onto it with the muscles yet again, the novelty was short lived and of course.... to each their own. Good luck on building the bridges of communication and trust for that is the most fun and passion inspiring most of all. this site seemed to open doors.....thanks for that
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