I'm a woman in my mid-50s whose gotten involved with someone who is much younger than me. He is very mature for his age and still has that energy and spirit in the bedroom, which makes sex fantastic. But, at a certain point in our relationship, his attention to me started to dissolve. He told me that he would enjoy watching me perform for him. Now, I do love how sex feels but being able to convey sexuality on my own and still have confidence is a bit difficult for me because I'm in my 50s and don't look as good as I used to. What sort of seductive moves or techniques should I use that will make me feel good about myself?
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Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
As we get older, our bodies change. Things rise or fall, we may gain weight, or lose the perfect waist we had. Now that said, you have a MUCH younger man who WANTS to have sex with you—what bigger confidence boost could you have than that!!! He wants you to put on a show for him—you could undress sexily for him, dance for him, or touch yourself…being sexy is all about confidence, so no matter what you decide to do, just do it with some zest! You might want to visualize or practice some things that you would feel sexy doing (you can watch some erotic videos for ideas). Dim the lights, and put on some music you find sexy. Wear an outfit you find sexy, and remove your clothing, piece by piece. Tease him by showing him your breasts, but not letting him touch them. Use erotic phrases, and for greater affect, tie up his hands so he can’t touch, only watch you as you seduce him. No matter what you do, it is HOW you do it. I know he will be so turned on by your confident seduction! Work it girl!
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