How To Keep It Steamy In The Bedroom

Sex itself never gets old but it never hurts to add a little spice to your sack sessions. Whether you just started dating or you have been married for 50-years, you need a little bit of variety in your sex life. If it has gotten slightly dull between the sheets or you're just looking add some spark, try some of these steamy ideas.

 Bring Some Toys

Bringing toys into the bedroom does not take away from the two of you pleasuring one another, it simply enhances the experience. One popular sex toy is the penis ring and it is used to constrict blood flow in the penis, increase sensitivity, make the erection last longer, and thus make the sex last longer. There are also vibrating rings that often come in packs of condoms; the ring works like a vibrator but it adds pleasure for both people. You can buy sex swings or slings, which make it easier to try different positions, and maximize pleasure.

Roleplay

You can try the sexy nurse, school-girl, or dominatrix roles, but you can get even more personal than that. Discuss what your fantasies are with another and you can try to act out some of those fantasies. If he had an attractive teacher in high school, role-play that you are the teacher and he is the student. This type of scenario is exciting because it is so taboo. You can watch pornography together and then try to act out one of the steamiest scenes in the video – or choose a sex scene from a movie and try that out. The two of you can even write down different role-playing scenarios that you want to try, put them in a hat, draw them out, and try them. You can even begin outside of the bedroom by meeting at a bar or a restaurant and pretending to be strangers, and then working from there.

Games

If you have the house to yourself then you can try Hide-and-Seek Gone Wild. One of you be the seeker and the other one hide in different areas around the house – once you are found, christen the area. Buy or create sex coupons and take turns picking them out of a bag and doing whatever the coupon says. Do a sexy photo-shoot together. Allow him to direct you into different poses and positions and let him be the photographer – use a digital camera so you can delete the pictures right after (if you want to). It's also fun to play a game of strip poker just the two of you.

Different Locations

You can try to have sex in different locations to add some excitement as well. Whether you're experimenting in different areas around the house or out in public, new experiences are sexy! If you do want to do it in the house then experiment on top of the dryer – when it's on. It gives you some vibration and often stands at the perfect height as well. If you have a roommate or you live with your parents you could always mess around in their room; although it is not that big of a deal, it will give you guys the sense that you're doing something against the rules (just don't leave a mess). If you have a large window in an upper level room then you can do it in front of the window with the curtains open.

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