How To Know If You're Dating a Loser

It’s pretty hard to admit to yourself that you’re dating a loser.  You have probably noticed that you’re constantly being forced to come up with excuses for his actions.  He can care less if he hurts your feelings and usually you try to reason with yourself that you actually did something to cause his mean behavior.  Deep down you know you can do better but you allow him to convince you that he’s the best you’ll ever have.  If any of these statements sound familiar then read below to see if you too are dating a loser.

He Thinks He’s Hotter Than You

A good man will make you feel like you’re the most beautiful woman alive, like he is lucky to have you.  On the other hand, a loser will try to make you feel like you’re the lucky one.  Sometimes the loser downright tells his girlfriend that she’s unattractive, fat, stupid, etc.  However, many losers do it more subtly.  He won’t compliment you, he’ll look at other women, he’ll brag about women that want him, and the list goes on.  He will do whatever he can to make you feel like you’re nothing special, like he is the best that you can get.

He Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings

He says what he wants, when he wants, how he wants, and he doesn’t care if he hurts your feelings in the process.  No matter how he treats you he will find a reason as to why it’s your fault, and sometimes he might be good enough to convince you.  He will criticize you, make you feel stupid, and act like you’re crazy for getting upset with him.  When he finally pushes you to the edge and you’re ready to dump him, he will try to reconcile by telling you how much he love and needs you.  At this point he acts so sweet that you cannot resist him. 

He Wants You To Support Him

There is nothing wrong with paying for a date once in a while but he shouldn’t want you to support him.  By nature, men are providers and protectors, and they don’t want to be provided for by their woman.  If he is a loser then he will come up with any excuse to not get a job, or if he has a job then he will come up with excuses to not pay for you.  He might “accidentally” forget his wallet when the two of you go out to dinner, or he will promise to pay you back but never gets around to it. 

He Only Cares About Pleasing Himself

A good man will want to please you (first and foremost), a loser will only worry about pleasing himself.  When you’re having sex he isn’t going to care about what feels good for you, he will only make sure that he gets off.  If you are enjoying yourself then that’s fine but he isn’t going to change anything to see that you do.  Furthermore, he won’t try to last longer just so that you can get off too.  He does not bother to please you but he probably goes and brags to his friends about how often he gets some.

Your Friends & Family Hate Him

If everyone that cares about you hates your boyfriend then obviously something is not right.  A loser will have no respect for your parents, and he won’t be especially nice to your siblings.  He won’t hide his bad attitude in front of your friends either, and he won’t care if his actions embarrass you.  He will also try to destroy any support system that you have in an effort to control you.  He cannot take a chance on your family or friends pointing out his negative behavior, so he will make sure that you are not influenced by them. 

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