Yes I said it lol.it sounds obserd I know but idk what to think about so here it goes well I’ve kinda always had this problem but I’ve never really thought about till now&idk how to deal with it I guess it’s something I cant fix.but when somebody touches be unexpectedly or some where im not used you like nothing private really it could be any where from tha back of my neck to my chest to my thigh. I get chill bumps like crazy&when I do I have some bad reactions I guess like me&my guy will be in his room on his bed all relaxed&makin out&he’ll softly run his hand down to my waist or tha back of my leg (&I know that’s perfectly normal and all I don’t mind) but when I get chill bumps and he’s rumping all over me I just cant stand tha thought of him feeling them so il move his hand somewhere else or inter-twine it with mine&he likes that but he also ask why do I always do that&kinda of takes it offensively like I don’t want him touching me but it not that I love him touching me I guess that’s why it drives me crazy inside and gives me chill bumps but sometimes it’s so bad it’s like some kind of wave or force I can through out my entire body from my head to my toes and I myself don’t consider it a good thing I meen yeh its all tingly but im so self conscious about it yanno.&last time we were together he’s like DO you NOT like me touchin your legs because I love them&im just like welll I dontt lol and kinda try to laugh it off but I don’t wanna keep this up any advice or is there no hope??? lol
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Geez / 17 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
LOL im 16.what does that have to do with any of this? lol
Geez / 17 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
yeh you were right lol so how old are you?
Geez / 17 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
oh dont sweat it lol i have sisters older than youu
Geez / 17 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
and we relate pretty well(:
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Let me get this right, you get embarrased by getting chill bumps?
Geez / 17 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Yesss! lol i've never heard of anyone else getting em
GG · OMG hun everyone gets them! I'm 31 and i still get them. They are perfectly normal and your bf would be thrilled that he makes this happen in you, honestly. Please don't be embarrased by it and try not to push your bf away just because of this as it could all so easily turn into a much bigger problem for the two of you. When i happens again, just make some off the cuff remark like " ooh! you've made me go all chill bumpy" (btw we call them goose bumps here lol) then giggle. He will love it and find it so endearing.
Geez'louise! · they say that here too i just figured chill bumps makes more sense lol..and if i say that chill bumpy remark he will thank ive gone british lol he'll be like what'd you just say? lol jk but ill keep this in mind thanks again gg(:
GG · Do i really write like a Brit? lmfao well i didn't know that! Well phrase it in a way which sounds cute and coy and all girlie and he'll love it!
Geez / 17 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
haha well he has the upper hand on me cause he has more experience being as i have none what so ever lol but he's a tad bit older only 2 years he says ima quick learner though(:
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
Just'rachel: That is an entirely, perfectly normal thing that happens to literally everybody, don't know why you feel you should be self-conscious about it. However, if you find the sensation too intense for your comfort, you can run your finger tips along the sensitive areas, or over all of your body, when your alone a few times as this can de-sensitize you to some extent and make it less intense when somebody/something else touches you there. You gotta repeat this exercise every day or so for it to keep though. It works best in my experience just before going to bed or upon waking, and worse just after a shower (since the shower water pretty much has the same effect).
Geez / 17 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
oh tell me about it lol i hate it when that happens!(after i get out tha shower),but dont take this post tha wrong way please lol i wasnt just meaning like down there he can touch me almost any where in a certain way and do that to me.i just thank its not very attractive at all he acts like he doesnt even notice tho so i guess il just have to get used to it and get over it as long as he's happy im happy
i actually got brave enough to mention it a lil while ago&he's like omg that'stha reason,yanno like why didnt you just say so lol he thought he was doing something wrong i guess?
and btw none of yall have to call me just'rachel lol im fine with rachel(:
andd thanks tons for all tha great advice everyonee!
it meens alot cause it at least seems like yall care(:
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
"i just thank its not very attractive at all"
Don't be so sensitive about it.
"he acts like he doesnt even notice"
I'm sure he really, actually didn't.
"he thought he was doing something wrong i guess? "
Probably.
"seems like yall care"
We do.
Geez / 17 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
ha,alright i get tha picture mr quote'ster(:
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