do girls look alot into a guys looks? if there was a guy that was 6'3 and ripped and then another guy who is 6'0 and semi fit but a lil chunky who would you talk to? also the fit guy is shallow but the other guy is nice and funny. if you couldnt tell this kinda reflects on me. i am 6'3 200 lbs and a bit chunky, i am a fat kid going skinny ha. but i have always been worried now that i am a bit thinner/better lookin that a girl will turn me down. ty for posts
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Megan / 21 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Married
I can't speak for all women, because I know some in my real life that are this shallow.
But looks are honestly THAT important to me, particularity the whole "Prince charming" concept. Don't get me wrong, if I see a guy I think is "Cute" it will spark a little interest, but if I go over and talk to him and he's arrogant and or conceded, it doesn't matter how "Cute" he is, I'm not tapping that. When your in love with someone, like me with my husband, that person your in love with becomes your personal definition of "Hot.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · true true. there ARE some shallow ones out there, but seriously, please tell me you DON'T go for them, cuz that means ur WAY more messed up than u think!
Megan · Little secret for you adrian, I may be "Bi", but I don't really "Check out" women as much as I do guys :P but if I did, I'd take your advice.
Megan · Oh and I meant to write "Looks honestly AREN'T that important to me".
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · lol! don't worry, i was talking to the original poster. =P
Mcgabgab321 · .... im 16 and a male and im straight....
Mcgabgab321 · thanks
Seggie / 21 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship
I can't speak for girls, but to a woman, whilst we will look at the pretty face (or body) first, we won't discount the other. Personally, my boyfriend looked like crap when I met him. He's black and had just taken out his rows and didn't properly comb his hair. My sister in law called him the "knappy head fool" because of that. Lol. But he has the best damn smile and laugh I'd ever seen and heard. He's full of himself, so his lack of "perfect" looks he makes up for in his confidence. I honestly don't know how he does it, but he says life is just what it is. If you think things suck, they'll continue sucking. If you just go with it, things'll be better. So have some confidence. It's hard to do, but it's possible.
/ Woman / Likes Men / Single
Well ok hate to say it but so many girls around their mid teenage years are extremely shallow. It is so annoying to witness it all the time. It's very offensive to know that many people choos you for how you look. I honestly think like complete full on abs are sortave a deformation. They just creep me out. I dont find it normal to be that fit. Anyway there are many girls that arnt so shallow though. The problem is you have to find them and be willing to let them find you. It's all a matter of who the person is.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · amen to this! when girls are teens the majority of them are EXTREMELY shallow!.....guys too, now that i think about it......
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