this is mainly for guys. Of all ppl my mother in-law called me a fat ass and im only like 30-40 lbs over the weight i should be so I was wonderin how fat is too fat. Keep in mind I'm a big builded person been in sports most my life so yea im big builded.
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Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
big builded? like muscular? lol, i honestly don't care much. as long as i can wrap my arms around my girl, i don't really care. =P.....damn, 30 lbs? lol.....i weigh 200, my girl weighs 245, and do i care? lol!!
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · just how much do you weigh, if you don't mind me asking?
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · oh, and newsflash- mother-in-laws are SUPPOSED to talk shit! =P
Honey · well sadly to say im like 240-250 :'(
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · been there, done her.....and? 240-250 is big, but not too big in my view!
Honey · well normally i gain weight in the winter and lose weight in the summer its almost like im a bear getting ready for hybernation season lol even though i dnt hybernate lol
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · that winter gain/summer lose thing is actually kinda common. my mom says it's cuz we eat heavier foods in winter (thanksgiving for example).
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · and how tall are you?
Honey · im 5'3 1/2 but i like to say 5'4
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · ok, 5'3" and 245 lbs.... ish....... big, but not unhealthy! hmmm....is ur mom-in-law skinny? my ex mom-in-law was skinny so i always liked overeating at her place! =P
Honey · no she's got looks like she was once fat lol she's like old enough to be my granny she's like 60+
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · lol! she's old, old people talk shit......
Honey · yea well she talked to much shyit
cleverKAL / 20 / Man / Likes Women / Single
I think it depends on your partners weight, usually. I'm a small guy ( 152 lbs ) so ideally, I like my girls to be between 108 and 125 lbs. Cause then I can pick them up and do my favorite sex position. But I've dated girls closer to 140, personality means almost everything to most people. I hope.
Honey · my husban is like 300 lbs
cleverKAL · Ah see that makes sense, well to me at least. I feel most comfortable when I'm a little heavier than the woman I'm with, I think it's a common feeling among most men. Personally, I think a lot of guys would be out of their comfort zones with a woman that's considerably bigger than them, it just depends on how thin he is to begin with. Personally, I've been totally turned on by a women who was around 200, but I wasn't diggin her personality so it never became anything. So even small dudes like goin bigger, the point is, extremes are never sexy, same goes for thin chicks, I could never date a woman less than 108 or 110 pounds, no way in hell, no matter how beautiful.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · lol. there ARE exceptions tho! my last girl was around 245 and i'm about 200 lbs. it really just depends on attitude.
cleverKAL · Very true, but 45 pounds, in my opinion, isn't that big a difference, I was talkin like 100 or more pounds bigger, those kinds of extremes, for me, are turn offs.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · true. 100 lbs for me would make the girl 300+ lbs!!! and THAT would be too big for me!
Bejarrodar / 21 / Man / Likes Women / Single
That depends on the guy i cant stand girls that are all skin and bones anorexic is a horrible look you need some cushion for the pushin' if you can clearly see your ribs you need to eat more
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