I'm a proud BBW whose always dated men who are of equal size to me (sometimes bigger). When I was much younger I was definitely insecure about my body but now I'm feeling very confident and sexy about myself. The men I date are always attracted in me and really enjoy my body and sensuality the way that they should. But, I met my match at a party last night. I was speaking to him for most of the night about everything under the sun. He was very sweet and now I have a crush on him. The thing is that he is way more skinnier than most guys I've dated in the past. He was built, athletic, he looked like someone who definitely is very active. And, I hate to admit it but it makes me feel self-conscious about my own body and my weight. I really wanna ask him out but I don't know if he's that into me because of the way I look. How can a big girl get a skinny guy to fall for her?
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Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
You said it yourself: you are now feeling confidant and sexy about yourself—so don’t lose those feelings!!! When you are feeling a little insecure, think about all the men who have been attracted to you in the past, and how you enjoy your body and sexuality. It sounds like you and your new crush got along so well the first night you met, so use that confidence and excitement to ask him out! If you already had such a great chemistry talking to each other, sounds like the next step is a date. Just go for it and ask him out. Do not give your size a thought. If you are confidant and feel beautiful, he will see that beauty—both on the inside and out—and be swept away!
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