I have a long foreskin. I don't know if it is abnormally long but i will say that even when erect it hangs over the head a 1/4 inch. It does not cause me any problems in every day life, it's not tight or anything like that, but during sex I have some problems. When I first start having sex, before my girlfriend is very wet the friction of sliding in and out will cause the skin to peel back, exposing the head. At this point sex feels great. However after a minute at most when she is more wet, my skin no longer gets slid back from the in and out motion. So for a majority of time I am having sex with the head completely covered. My girlfriend doesnt seem to notice a huge difference but I get almost no pleasure from sex because my head is always covered up. I feel like I am having sex with a super thick condom on. I don't really know what I to do. Please help!
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Yoda / Woman / Likes Men / Single
A lot girls prefer it uncut .. I do. Heaven I miss your videos.
Dr / Woman / Likes Men / Single
DO NOT CUT IT OFF, you will regret that you did. You will be replacing highly sensitive nerves/skin with scar tissue. No, circumcision is horrible.
Joelface / Woman / Likes Men / Single
The idea of using a cock ring is a great one. Try that for sure. They are cheap, and if you find one the right size, it will be able to hold your foreskin back.
I personally don't see why the foreskin covering the head would reduce pleasure though, since the head of the penis contains largely pressure-sensitive nerve endings, not fine-touch ones. This type of sensation can still be experienced with the foreskin covering the head. Nevertheless, I think if you prefer the head exposed during sex, there are various ways you can achieve this.
Having erogenous genital tissue cut off seems like a terrible idea to me.
Domo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I am circumsized so take my advice with a grain of salt. The way i look at it is that as long as it isnt uncomfortable for you, you dont really have that big of a problem. Sure it may not always be super great for you but look at it this way, if you feel less stimulation, the longer you can last and more you can please your girlfriend. Dont be afraid to be a giver and put your girlfriend first.
As a guy most of the pleasure comes from the climax/orgasm so the question would be, are you having problems reaching that point due to lack of sensation? If this is your problem you could always finish other ways like a bj, hj or other forms of release. Hopefully you guys are using some form of protection or birth control although it doesnt sound like you are using condoms. If that is the case i hope you at least use the old pull out technique before the finish. If you do, the above forms of release would apply. Have your girlfriend bring you to climax rather than reaching the point of climax through sex.
With that said you can always try having sex with a condom, pull the foreskin back before putting it on and hopefully everything stays comfortable with the head exposed. If you really dislike condoms or have found it not to help you can also consider a cock ring. In my experience they are uncomfortable but depending on your size and the kind you try (there is a wide variety), you may find success with them. They can be used to keep the foreskin back as well as potentially adding other benefits and pleasure so it is probably worth experimenting with.
Your last option would probably be consider getting circumsized. I am no expert but i hear it is done by laser these days where you can essentially customize the cut (how much you want off etc.) and due to technology quicker healing time with minimal scar tissue.
Hope this helps.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Pst, don't think I'm ignoring you. I genuinely know very little about foreskin and I've been wrong about it before. Thus I'm trying to leave this one up to the boys. Hey boys...come on now.... :)
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