Girlfriend scared away by size

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Hi,
I used to be with a girl who was virgin and everything kinda broke down for one weird reason. She wanted our first time to happen, but was always far too scared. For some reason she set herself under pressure, nothing worked and from there on the whole thing broke down. I almost got twice as much as the average stats in terms of girth and length. Well, it all ended over 2 years ago... I still want her back. What can I do to get her back now and get around the problem?

About alternative: almost all girls here are like a 0/10 rating (that's even gentle compared to giving details). So there is not much hope of finding someone else

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AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Fear of dick size should not be a reason to break up. Women grow, stretch, and mold to their partners, no matter how big or small. She needs to understand that. If you guys had a good relationship otherwise, than the sex part can easily be worked around. All she'll need to do is work with different dildos on her own until she is comfortable with larger sizes. You may be able to watch her masturbate with them so you're still involved. Over time, she will stretch out and be ready to handle your size. Getting her back will need to be your doing, since I don't know the extent of the problems you had. Tell her that you miss her though, and that you miss all of the good parts of your relationship. List those so she remembers too. Maybe avoid sex for a little while, and then see what you guys can work out.

about 2 years ago
BigTrouble
BigTrouble / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Thanks for the advice ;)

The problem is that I don't know how to get her out of her relationship (the one after me).

I still don't know what was going on in her. She just started to freak out a lot when there wasn't any problem.

about 2 years ago
AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Fear of commitment? If you were one of her first real relationships, she might be thinking she's missing out on something. If that's the case, she'll go through a few bad flings and come back to you.

about 2 years ago
BigTrouble
BigTrouble / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Really? So if she definetly has bad feeling about the end of it I might have chances on her returning by herself and I can wait til that happens before I do further wok on this?

about 2 years ago
AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

It's up to you, but if she's just sort of whoring herself around right now (no offense taken please), you need to just let her have her flings. Trying to get in now will be pointless. She wants to be free, unbound by what was turning out to be a perfect relationship. When she's been hurt a couple of times and realized that life isn't always that good when you're free and fun, you can make a move. You can even be her support at that time so she wants you even more. In essence, wait for her to fall and then pick her back up.

about 2 years ago
BigTrouble
BigTrouble / Woman / Likes Men / Single

OK, I will lay back, drink something healthy and observe for the next time and see what happens.

Thanks for the advice.

about 2 years ago
AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Not a problem. Ask here any time :)

about 2 years ago

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