GIVE ME A HEAD! PLS.

hi i want my gf to give me a bj but she wont give it to me..and im not being satisfied with just the sex.. i want a little icing on top.. ive been asking for it for a long time.. ive given her orals just to let her know that i need it too.. i spend at least one hour down there just to give her the big O... so how can i make her give me a head??

You can't make her give it to you, she has to want to do it on her own. Reciprocation is essential to a successful relationship, and clearly she does not want to reciprocate.

My first inkling is to say she's a selfish person. However, you could smell bad down there, deterring her from wanting to do it at all. If that's the case, a girl may have trouble telling her boyfriend this because she doesn't want to embarrass him. Check that out.

Otherwise, if you've done it to her and she hasn't done it to you - and you've been asking her for a long time - clearly she doesn't care about you as much as you do about her. Some girls don't like giving blowjobs, but they do it at least once in awhile to make their man happy.

Two years ago, I had a relationship with the same issue - we dated for three months and I couldn't take it anymore. I had gotten one blowjob, and anytime I asked her for a back massage she would say no. She just didn't seem to care, and these little things add up in relationships. Some people may say that not getting head is a bad reason to break up with someone, but that's just part of the reason. The main reason is that she is choosing not to please you - it's not like you're asking her to tie you up and shove gerbils up your ass - it's just a blowjob.