well im sure you guys have heard this question on here a thousand times but i have a little of over a 4 inch penis when errect and and and about 4.5 in girth ive read all over that the most sensitive part is only 2 inches in side of the vagina so why is it that i have a hard time pleasing my girlfriend with penetration and always have to use oral or toys to make it feel like it was worth her time not that i mind doing that just wish she could enjoy each other at that same time. she has only been with a total of 4 guys before me so is not like she is loose or nothing.so i was just wondering have what ive been reading is it false and its that im just no adequate to please her with penetration. or maybe you can give me some better techniques this is real frustrating for me thanks
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Thor / 47 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Better get used to being creative. You're not that small, but then again you're not that big either. Here are some tips:
1. Let her get on top and control whats happening
2. If she's skinny, do it doggy style. Her pussy will be pushed way out so you can get your full length in there
3. Add lots of oral, fingering and important -- foreplay to your repertoire
Good luck! And remember, no matter what all the ads say, you can't make your dick grow larger, so the best thing to do is to make the most of it my friend!
Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single
BigJoe below, is right. You are average and there is nothing you can do about it but embrace it and make the most of it. Have her take control every so often and see what she likes. Don't believe everything you read and just focus on your girl and what both of you want during sex. The toys are a plus but aren't necessary to make her have a great experience. Don't worry about her past or how tight she is either. Enjoy each other and do what you both like with what you have. Ask her what she likes, look up positions to try together, and act on it! Sex shouldn't cause you any stress, enjoy it!
Big_b / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I have the exact opposite problem.... I am too big.
you think you have issues, try seeing the one you love in pain when you try to have intercourse. its not at all pleasurable.
LBZ / Woman / Likes Men / Single
i would much rather have that problem than the one im in i mean it affects me more than just in the bed it messes with your overall confidence of yourself i got lucky a found a real good girlfriend that is willing to make it work but i had girls that have just straight walked out on me because of my size now how that for self confidence builder and probley the reason why im on here asking the questions that i am right now
Evilsaint / Woman / Likes Men / Single
From a girls point of view,Your issue isnt the size of your dick. Its the fact that you doubt your ability to use what god gave ya. Think about it like this most guys can get a girl off with a finger ( much smaller than your dick) but you have no self confidence so you are uptight and to stressed during sex. To be blunt, to solve your problem, you just need to fuck her like you are a well hung stud! Act like you are great in bed, its not always what you have but how you use it.
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