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What if my penis is too small?
Question Asked by warrioryo about 1 year ago - [ Ask a Question ]
My girlfriend has had many more partners than myself and I feel as if I may be a little less well endowed than her previous partners. I'm nervous that she may not want me anymore if she thinks I'm not up to par with the rest of the guys. I've been avoiding sexual activity because I'm afraid she may kick me to the curb. What should I do?
Answer
You cannot make your penis bigger. Since you have already had sex with this woman, I assume that she has seen your penis, and felt it inside her. After seeing and feeling what you call a “small” penis, she still wants to have sex with you—problem solved! There are MANY factors that goes into what makes a woman sexually attracted to someone. Penis size is just one of them. There are so many alternate ways to arouse your woman-oral sex, manual stimulation, massaging, mutual masturbation, toys, role playing…use ALL of these methods to have fun and enjoy the experience. Focusing on your size will kill the moment and ruin things for both of you. If you are bringing her to orgasm and pleasuring her all along the way, she won’t be thinking about your penis size at all.
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by Bev about 1 year ago
I completely agree with ExoKisa, and that is from my own experience. I have had some sexual partners, all of different shapes and sizes. The largest man didn't please me at all, because he didn't put any effort into foreplay or oral, and he wasn't really "into" me. The man I am with now is on the smaller size, and he actually warned me before we had sex the first time, that he may not be big enough for me. He could have saved himself the embarrassment, because his size is just fine for me! 98% of the time I don't have an orgasm during sex, so what's a big penis for anyways!? He compensates by being extra romantic, and always offering oral to me, which is amazing! He definitely makes up for his size. So don't sweat it! Just be confident in yourself, and she'll see that!
by Dae Dae about 1 year ago
hey man . im married and im only 20 . no kids yet or nothin. anyway... my wife is really honest . she's been with 10 people. that alone makes me insecure. im 6 inches. one time i asked her if she'd been with bigger and she said yea... and that sucked so much she said but it hurt when he put it in so i was like HOLY CRAP. its that big!? i was sooo bummed. so insecure. she always tells me that im better at sex anyway and that his hurt and whatever but thats cuz shes my wife. maybe shes jsut being nice. i guess im in the same boat as you.
by Jack about 1 year ago
I wouldn't worry about it too much to be honest. If she is not satisfied she will either leave you, tell you about it and try and work on it or nothing will happen. In the end, if two people are not BOTH satisfied then that is just the way life is and things will not be equal. Plenty of people are in this world to please everyone. Each one of you will find someone that satisfies someone else. I think guys make this a bigger issue than it really is.
by psize about 1 year ago
I disagree with the answer you cant make your penis bigger ive done penis enlargement exercise and i can tell you for a fact that it realy FFING works i always thought it was Bull S**T but i swear it does work. But the only thing is you have to really give it your all into its like a workout you just dont sit around and play with it like your masterbating you treat it like a workout theres stretches and all sorts of things to do; i think thats why people dont think it works is cause they give up cause they dont see results same thing with people that go to the gym and give up and think that people that look good must take steriods its cause the person that gave up didnt put full effort into it. Trust me it works.
by Qtip about 1 year ago
i just found out that my girlfriend has had sex a couple of times with a guy that has about twice the gerth i do she said it was about as wide as her wrist and maybe about 8 and a half inches long im sitting at around 1 and 3/4 to maybe 2 inches thick and around 7 hard i know for a fact that girls like it thicker but shes lying to me i know it, i just need some input because i keep trying to talk to her about it and she never gives me a streight answer.. since i found out about this (wich shes been hiding our entire relationship) i think i lost my desire to have sex with her. she is a sweet girl but i dont know if i can look at her the same.. im starting to feel like theres no truth to what she says and everytime i bring it up she either crys or trys to turn it around on me.. am i wrong for wanting to end the relationship?
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by ExoKisa about 1 year ago
Bone up on your other skills. (Like my pun?) Size is not everything. If someone is hung like horse and has no clue how to use it, they aren't going to please anyone. In fact, they'll probably hurt someone. Most women can't or don't cum from intercourse alone so penis size really shouldn't matter. In fact, being on the smaller side might make certain things a lot easier for her, like deepthroating. What most women find sexier than anything else is confidence. Also, if you can give her multiple orgasms with your tongue or fingers, she's not going to be complaining about the length of your penis.