. I’ve always been really comfortable with my body. I am a curvy girl in my mid-20s, and I’ve never had a trouble finding a guy. I like to dress nicely, and wear cute bras and panties, and other costumes in the bedroom. I dress up for myself AND my guy. I have pretty average to bigger breasts. In the past year, I’ve noticed that one breast seems bigger than another. I started getting self-conscious about this when a boyfriend of mine commented on it. You can definitely tell when I’m wearing a cute bra, and sometimes when I’m wearing a low cut shirt, the shirt pulls to one side. Is this normal? Will this be a turn off for guys?
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Maeri / Woman / Likes Men / Single
It can be totally normal for a chick two have breasts which are different sizes. In fact, have one breast which is larger than the other is a pretty common problem, and though some women choose to have cosmetic surgery to correct it (some cases can very drastically, like having one A and one D cup) it's probably not necessary. I know for myself, my breast size actually changes with weight gain or loss, which is also common given the breasts are composed of so much fat (kind of ironic given the state of things, its nice to hear from other proud curvey ladies!)
Some things you want to consider though:
* Is this something you're just noticing because your guy brought it to your attention? Meaning, its the way you've developed naturally but its now starting to bother you- or has it just recently developed?
If it's something that's just recently developed, I'd recommend doing a self breast examination. Lying on your back, your (or your guy) can use two fingers and put gentle pressure in circular motions working out from the nipple. Look for skin changes or bumps that feel like hard peas under the skin. The breasts have natural lumps in the muscle (ducts, fat etc) so don't spaz if you feel something, but definitely get it checked out if you're concerned.
Given your age,I *highly* doubt you'll find anything, or that this is even necessary, but if you're concerned just ask a nurse or doctor.
Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single
It is not rare for a woman to have one breast larger than the other. The degree of the difference in size varies from one woman to another, but it is very common. Of course your boyfriend would notice, I'm sure he feels they're his property to an extent, but do not worry. Unless there is a notable difference in size, like two different-sized cups, I would not fret or look into surgery. Embrace your breasts and continue wearing what you want to!
Iamfwomwome / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Asymmetry is a sign of suboptimal nutrition / digestion
my first lover was a bit lopsided in her sweater, and she was very sexy; so be loving to yourself and your man
Don't smoke; Eat right for your metabolic / dosha type
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