My first time hurt really bad, but a lot of people's don't. It depends on how used to sex you are. Masturbation helps a lot, so if you're worried, I'd try that so your body gets used to what's going to happen ahead of time. Other than that, the pain goes away in time. It's just a lot of pressure initially, but some people don't feel any pain at all. Who knows what will happen for you.
I'm a guy, so losing my virginity didn't hurt at all. I was so hyped up, so excited, so filled with so much... anticipation, I didn't notice if was painful for my lady or not. And that's the problem.
For girls breaking the hymen can be painful with a little blood, and that's probably normal. But today, many girls may have already broken their hymen using toys. For many girls the conflicting emotional elements can increase the feeling of physical pain.
I imagine the first time can be scary for a girl, which can decrease lubrication. Your fear, pleasure, guilt, excitement, loneliness, love, disappointment, desire for acceptance, can affect answer to your question, so the answer is, "maybe yes, maybe no".
The real answer needs to be - patience, patience, patience for the guy and Lube, Lube, Lube for the girl. It can be difficult to get the guy to be patient at that intense moment, so make sure you take care of your half and take care of the lube. Make sure to be with a guy who will be aware of your needs. Most guys at that age, they won't be. Take care of yourself. NEVER forget the birth control, EVERY TIME. Be Safe.
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AskMyGF / 23 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
My first time hurt really bad, but a lot of people's don't. It depends on how used to sex you are. Masturbation helps a lot, so if you're worried, I'd try that so your body gets used to what's going to happen ahead of time. Other than that, the pain goes away in time. It's just a lot of pressure initially, but some people don't feel any pain at all. Who knows what will happen for you.
Booboo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I'm a guy, so losing my virginity didn't hurt at all. I was so hyped up, so excited, so filled with so much... anticipation, I didn't notice if was painful for my lady or not. And that's the problem.
For girls breaking the hymen can be painful with a little blood, and that's probably normal. But today, many girls may have already broken their hymen using toys. For many girls the conflicting emotional elements can increase the feeling of physical pain.
I imagine the first time can be scary for a girl, which can decrease lubrication. Your fear, pleasure, guilt, excitement, loneliness, love, disappointment, desire for acceptance, can affect answer to your question, so the answer is, "maybe yes, maybe no".
The real answer needs to be - patience, patience, patience for the guy and Lube, Lube, Lube for the girl. It can be difficult to get the guy to be patient at that intense moment, so make sure you take care of your half and take care of the lube. Make sure to be with a guy who will be aware of your needs. Most guys at that age, they won't be. Take care of yourself. NEVER forget the birth control, EVERY TIME. Be Safe.