my girlfriend is very tight. VERY tight. As in, it hurts for the first few minutes, when anything larger than a finger is inserted. She says that it's always been that way, too. She said that it hurt for the first few minutes every time she had sex with her last boyfriend. When we started to fool around, it hurt her when I inserted a second finger when manually stimulating her, and I could definitely tell that she's very small down there... My penis is thicker than three of my fingers. How do I get around this unique situation without causing her more pain?
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
The female body comes built in with the ability to loosen itself down there. Most of the time when a girl is super tight, it's just because she is not mentally prepared for what is going on. The same happens with anal sex. Chances are she's a bit afraid of sex because of that pain, so now she experiences it every time because that is what her mind expects. To get her over this hurdles, try buying her a series of dildos that go from small to big. Get lots of lube and then start practicing with them. Move up in size until she can comfortably handle a dildo roughly the size of your dick. Then jump in. She'll feel like she's stretching herself out down there, even if all she's doing is getting used to what her body can already handle.
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