we been doing with my gf for quite sometime now the threesome 2 girls how would I know if she likes it?coz everytime I ask her to do it she always argrue but at the end she agree to do it. And when we doing it it seems she like it but I am not so sure. And after we done it she does not speak about what happen.I am so confuse.
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Snatural / Woman / Likes Men / Single
My guess, due to the fact that when you suggest the threesome and she argues each time, is that she doesn't enjoy it. If she argues and then refuses to speak about it afterwards those are pretty clear signs that she's upset about something involving the threesome. Most likely, she doesn't enjoy it but is agreeing to be involved because its something you obviously express you want.
I would suggest that you have a serious conversation with her, and ask what her feelings are. Listen during this conversation, and try to understand and let her have her say. She will most likely tell you what the issue is, whether it's that she doesn't feel comfortable with having a threesome or if she's not getting any pleasure out of it. In the end, you should let her speak her peace and then respect her opinion. If it ends up being that she doesn't want to have threesomes anymore, respect that and don't try to talk her into it. All that will lead to is problems in the relationship, and if you care about the future of the relationship it's best to try and find other things that you both enjoy sexually.
Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Your girlfriend arguing with you and then not speaking to you about these threesomes, are definitely signs that she is not enjoying them. She might appear to be enjoying them just to please you, during the act. Consider her participation in these past threesomes as an act of selflessness on her part. She has already done this for you, maybe you can try a different approach and ask her what she would like to please her for a change? Maybe communication between the both of you will open the door to a better sex between the both of you and the both of you only. For now, it does not seem like threesomes are her thing. I would give her a break and start exploring sex together as a couple.
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